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Hello NGTrends readers, please, I need your advice in this my situation! This lady happens to be my course mate in the university! She got married to a 50 -years old man at the age of 18! According to her she was ill advised because the man is a medical doctor and has money.
When she eventually got married to the man,she had discovered that it is another thing entirely. she refused to get pregnant because she never loved the man and the man had been maltreating her. She said her husband is an occultist and the man wanted to use her for ritual! She came to me and I started giving her a piece of advice and recommended MFM church for her to attend so that she can pray. Not quite long things became worse between both families.
She kept coming to my place though am not independent! I live with my uncle. She has found me more reliable and always wanted to be with me! She had fallen in love with me but I had never for once because I was a virgin and she is a bit older than me. She left her husband and got her own rented apartment! She felt into the hands of 419ers of ‘wash money ‘.
She borrowed money from me and I went extra mile to borrow from my uncle and my neighbour which I’m still indebted to. I eventually slept with her and she got pregnant. In fact it is now that I have realized the implications. I have many choice ladies who are interested in me for marriage! She got to know and she has been harassing them. I made clear to her that I don’t want to marry her but she refused and said she would kill herself and all sorts of threats! Our baby boy is 2 years old and am still in school. I have hidden this from my family because I don’t want them to know
I don’t have mother who can be of help. I have been spending all my money on the child’s. She once deceived me not to worry that she will take care of the baby alone but deep down me I know it is not going to work. Although she has been trying her level best to support me but I don’t just love her. She said she not marry any other person except me.
What exactly can I do?