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Advice Me: My Sister Keeps Calling My Boyfriend’s Name In Her Sleep

Advice Me: My Sister Keeps Calling My Boyfriend’s Name In Her Sleep

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Hello sir, 

I am Sola and am a banker with one of the Top Banks. My work recently has been taking a lot of time and so this has taken a toll on my relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. He keeps complaining that have not been having his time, as I don’t pick his calls most time during office hours. But he refused to believe the phone is not always with me at that time. We submit our phones at resumption of work to avoid distractions.
Late in June, we began to have serious conflicts as we would go days without contacting eachother. But we always found a way to reconcile. But since the 3rd week of July, we have not spoken, which made me believe we are done with eachother.

But what now baffles me is that since last week, my younger sister has been mumbling his name in her sleep. Have not really confronted her. But it happened again this night.

Could it be that they are seeing eachother? I can’t stand the thought that my ex is seeing Sade.

Please, I need advice on what to do please.

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  1. Sis one is every bad by u not calling ur guy an again they is a way call ur guy ask him wats going on do dat first before anything an for ur sister just keep ur eyes down do nt say anything for now u dnt ve 2cry 3yrs relationship is nt easy fine I no hw u feel

  2. u don’t need to ask her y, just go nd settle with him first since he as not break up with you, he just stopped calling you, since u don’t always pick his calls ask him y he decided not to call you but if he nw tell you his done with you then u can nw ask your sis

  3. not picking his calls should not separate u guys Bcos he knowns d nature of Ur job he should understand…..when a man starts nagging u should no his tired. Ur sister’s case if a small one, monitor her try Nd record her mumbling at Nyt if possible then ask her politely if she denies it give her proff with d recording u will get d whole truth. my dear 3yrs may b much but he may not b yours when u let dat door close another one will open one who will Luv u even in Ur working hour,who will anxiously wait for u to close so u guys can talk…..Nd also try Nd give Ur relationship a little gud time too it matters.

  4. not picking his calls should not separate u guys Bcos he knowns d nature of Ur job he should understand…..when a man starts nagging u should no his tired. Ur sister’s case is a small one, monitor her try Nd record her mumbling at Nyt if possible then ask her politely if she denies it give her proff with d recording u will get d whole truth. my dear 3yrs may b much but he may not b yours when u let dat door close another one will open one who will Luv u even in Ur working hour,who will anxiously wait for u to close so u guys can talk…..Nd also try Nd give Ur relationship a little gud time too it matters.

  5. My dear u will av to take things easy in dis case, cos if not u won’t get de truth u needed to Knw in dis matter. Shot of de issue betwn u n ur guy first if it’s resolvable since der is no formal breakup btw u guys.Bt if de guy doesn’t wnt u anymore pls let go, nt getting married to guy dat doesn’t wnt u can never determine ur future, God av reason for doing anytin he dose. Though it’s painful bt u gat to move on beb nothing on earth worth dying for not even a guy dat myth nt even tak wat u r crying for as anytin.u better thank God dis tin happened b4 u get married to him. De owe wide world knows bankers are always busy. As for ur sis small tin just monitor her wisely n get hold to gud evidence, b4 confronting her with a calm voice. Even if she screamed, u don’t, play maturity with both side.God is ur strength, u will laugh last IJN.

  6. Dear Sola, you can’t begin to cry when you suspect that the milk is spilled.. you had your chance and I think you blew it.. listen, you needed to have prioritized your stuff.. Your job is very important so also is your relationship. I’m sure your BF is having something to do with your sis. Either he is asking her out and putting some immense pressure on her and she is about to break or he is already chopping and either way you have lost out. Even when you find out, you will only hurt the more.. My advice is for you to eat humble pie, chill out and move on.. This train left the station a long time ago. Cheers and good luck

  7. Hmmmmmmnnn….I’ll advice that you do not allow your 3year relationship with this guy come between you and your sister….So you need to settle this in a mature and discreet way….Have a girl talk with your sister and try to reconcile with the guy…it may just be that she’s crushing on him…but whatever you do…Don’t jeopardize the relationship between you and your sister. and please don’t cry or be sad…try to manage the situation.

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