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I am 23years old and i am confused, i dont understand what I feel anymore,i dont know if its love or lust. I was dating a guy called Bob, he was so sweet when we met he does every sweet thing you can think of, he even goes out of his way to show he really loves me but ever since he disvirgined me everything about him changed, he just went from the sweet Bob I know to the sorrow and problem in my life, he got me distracted I couldn’t think straight at all again all he does is call me when he wanna have s*x, aside that I keep chasing him with calls. The most hurtful occurrence was this faithful day I turned him down, he was so mad at me that my so called lover didn’t sleep in the room with me he slept in the sitting room,he kept on with the attitude the previous morning he didn’t even answer when I greeted him that morning, he made me invisible and so useless this day, I had to leave his house because I wasn’t comfortable and he seem unbothered, his best friend walked me down I was so pained that all I could do was cry. The best friend kept checking on me Bob didn’t bother to even message me not to talk less of calling. Bob left the country without calling or telling me, his friend told me. I kept talking to his friend, we became so close to cut the long story short I had sex with Bob’s best friend and I feel bad about it. Now Bob is back he keeps calling but his best friend said he is in love with me that I should give him a chance to treat me right. I still love Bob, Bob’s friend is very loving and caring and I think I really like him. I am so confused on what to do. Please advice me and kindly go easy on your comment, I was hurting I didnt mean to sex my boyfriend’s best friend I just needed something or someone to make me feel loved.