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Tips On How To Keep Your Marriage Hot And Sexy

Tips On How To Keep Your Marriage Hot And Sexy

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Want to keep your marriage just as sexy as it was on your honeymoon? Here are some tips:

1. What Does SEXY Mean to You?

When we asked from experts in psycology, we came back with this fun acronym for S.E.X.Y.

    S is for safety- Without safety, emotional and otherwise, you can’t have a marriage. Safety means protecting your spouse’s feelings.

      E is for energy – You have to invest energy into your marriage, sexual and otherwise. It’s not 50/50, it’s 100/100 percent.

        X is for X factor – It’s the wildcard. Surprise your spouse in the way that makes the person feels X-tra special: flowers, surprise sexual romps, picnics, trips, etc.

          Y is for yes – Forget the computer and cell phone, and spend quality time with your loved one. Try to eliminate “No, I don’t have time” from your vocabulary for a bit and just say yes, as long as it’s not offensive or abusive.
          “Remember, SEXY is the relationship — mind, body and soul.” “SEXY is when all three come together to enhance each person and create a 1+1=3, meaning that the collective we becomes more than who we are individually.”

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          2. Have an affair … with your partner.

          Having an affair with your spouse can bring back the feelings of excitement and closeness—not to mention the smoking-hot s*x—that you had when you first met, Love says. So send each other sexy texts when you least expect it, buy racy lingerie, sneak away for a nooner at a hotel, or meet at bar and pretend you don’t know each other. “Tap into that playfulness and passion—and you’ll start looking at your partner in a new, sexy, light.”

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          3. Nonsexual Intimate Touch is Critical

          While no sexpert will deny the importance of touching as a key component in intimate sexual relations, relationship coach and author Lisa Hayes points out that touching outside of sex is just as vital to a steamy romance. “When two people first meet they can’t keep their hands off of each other. They hold hands when they sit next to each other. They snuggle on the sofa when they watch TV. They touch in passing as often as they can. They crave the touch and that kind of touch fuels sexual desire. As a relationship progresses and life takes over, that kind of touch tends to diminish. But you want the fire in the bedroom to continue to burn hot. Nonsexual touch defines two people as a couple even more than s*x does. It stimulates oxytocin production which is the bonding brain chemical. Foreplay starts way before you take your clothes off. Nonsexual intimate touch is a very important part of foreplay and it should be happening all day everyday. When it’s happening, two people are far more open to each other both emotionally and physically.”

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          4. Celebrate the good times.

          Couples who celebrate joyous moments together have the happiest, most trusting, and most committed relationships. “When you share your spouse’s excitement—whether it’s completing a 5K or getting a new job—you project that joy onto your partner.” And nothing is more attractive than a person who loves her life. So celebrate each other’s big and small successes to become a person that everyone wants to be around—especially your spouse.

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          5. Flaunt your sexy self.

          The first step to staying attractive to each other: Feeling attractive. There’s nothing more appealing to a man than a woman who feels sexy in her own skin. And there’s no bigger libido-booster for women than feeling that comfortable. Only you know what makes you feel sexy—whether it’s wearing sexy underthings or getting in a great sweat session at the gym—but there is one feel-sexy secret that’s universal: Talk about s*x. Fisher’s study found that women who talked about s*x with their spouses for 10 minutes a day had the same sexual desire as women who took a libido-boosting medication. And chitchat benefits men, too: “Ninety-five percent of men and women say that talking about their relationship boosted intimacy.”  Talk about a win-win!

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          6. Compete!

          Pitting yourself against your guy can boost attraction, add chemistry, and lead to a hotter s*x life. A Pennsylvania State University study found that competition ups libido-boosting testosterone in men and women. “People interpret that competitive rush as a connection to their partner,” Love says. Challenge your guy to a tennis match, bet who can guess the amount closest to the dinner bill, or race him to the top of the stairs—then hit the sheets!

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          7. Have lots s*x.

          Lots of it. Two-thirds of women don’t get aroused until they’re already in the act, says marriage and family therapist Pat Love, author of Never Be Lonely Again. Translation: Don’t wait to “feel” like having s*x to do it. “The more s*x you have the s*xier  you feel and the more you’ll want to do it.” Another bonus: The dopamine and oxytocin that’s released after s*x  will make you feel closer than ever.

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          8. Sparking the Fire and Keeping it Burning

          A specialist suggest the below tips for keeping your marriage hot:
          ● Drink a glass of wine and eat a piece of chocolate with your partner
          ● Turn off the television and light some candles
          ● Surprise your spouse by giving them a back massage before they fall asleep

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