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Please Advice Me: Is My Marriage In Trouble?

Please Advice Me: Is My Marriage In Trouble?



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Hello NgTrends,

What is the essence of marriage without s*x, does s*x has anything to do in marriage?

I married her 5month ago and she never allow me to make love with her, this make me feel so bad when we sleep together at night and caused a lot of pain in my heart. She’s 35 and I am 40 years old. She doesn’t care about my feelings and seems to be comfortable with it.

Please should I forcefully make love with her or keep extra marital affair with the ladies out there in my office.
I don’t know what to do. Please advice me I am so confused.



  1. I advice you to pressure her on her reason why she doesn’t want to have sex with you or why she doesn’t have feeling for you. Is she seeing someone without your knowledge? If she refuse to tell you or dodge your questions, then try and threaten her by saying you will divorce her just to hear her response and you can decide for yourself what to do next.

    I hope this advice helps.

  2. I believe u people married in the church. Go and present the case to your priest or pastor as the case may be. The catholic church will normally judge the case and decide from the results if the marriage is up for annulment. Don’t jump into extra-marital affairs. Two wrongs do not make a right.

  3. You should sit together and discuss the matter may be she have problems.just sit her down nd hear her view if she didn’t have any problm u can talk decision on ur own but don’t go in to affairs with outside ladies.

  4. Hellooo!? How come you guys re married in the first? Honestly if you really took the time to know her well enough then this issue shouldn’t be coming up now. Its plain to see you don’t even know the woman you got married to.

    But now that you here at this point, what you really need to do if you really want to still try work things out is to sit her down and talk, I mean the kind of talk you should have had with her before even thinking of marrying her. Get to know her man, inside out.

    Remember marriage is just another transaction and like every business transactions, you peacefully bow out and move on if there’ll be nothing in it for you.


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