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Relationship Complications Even the Happiest Couples Deal With…

Relationship Complications Even the Happiest Couples Deal With…

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It is a myth if any couple claim they are perfect or not experience problems in a relationship. In reality relationships will have rocky times and even times of doubt about whether you should be in your relationship at all. There’s no perfect relationship and if a couple tells you theirs is, they’re either in denial or haven’t been together long enough to discover it isn’t. Many people do have wonderful relationships but even those aren’t without complications.
These are complications even the happiest couples deal with. Realizing everyone has issues in their relationship can help you to realize you’re not alone.

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1. You’re Two Different People

This is such a simplistic observation. It’s certainly not news. But you may not realize how very different you are. Even if you have a lot in common there can be clashes just because you’re different #people. Accepting this can help minimize conflicts that occur when you try to force the other person to see things like you do.

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2. S*x

Even partners who love each other can be a mismatch, s*xually. A lack of s*xual self-awareness and education worsens these problems. But having s*x is one of the last things you should give up. “S*x, brings us closer together, releases hormones that help our bodies both physically and mentally, and keeps the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy.

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3. The Introvert Vs Extrovert Issue

Many couples find themselves in this dynamic. Introverts and extroverts often pair up. If you’re wondering why this may be, it’s because we each seek someone to balance us out. Finding someone who’s our opposite is one way of balancing. This is less of a complication when you accept your differences instead of fighting against them.

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4. Money
Money problems can start even before the wedding vows are exchanged. They can stem, for example, from the expenses of courtship or from the high cost of a wedding. It is advice-able that couples who have money woes take a deep breath and have a serious conversation about finances.

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5. Speaking before Thinking

Speaking before thinking is something most of us do at times. The key here is to be forgiving when your partner does this and make an effort to do better next time when it’s you. Working to overcome this can help you have fewer arguments and hurt feelings in your relationship. It’s something that doesn’t happen overnight. Conquering this takes time.

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6. Struggles Over Home Chores

Most partners work outside the home and often at more than one job. So it’s important to fairly divide the labor at home.

7. Not Making Your Relationship a Priority

If you want to keep your love life going, making your relationship a focal point should not end when you say ‘I do’.

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8. Someone in Your Partner’s Circle of Friends and Family Doesn’t like You

It’s always hurtful when this happens but it’s not uncommon. The key here is to remember that the person who doesn’t like you is outside of your relationship. They aren’t included in the intimate bond you have. Once you learn this, you’ll have more confidence handling this situation. In fact, you may even find that friend or family member’s actions humorous.

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9. Handling Conflict Differently

More than likely, you and your partner handle conflict differently. Some people prefer to talk things out immediately while others want to be left alone with their thoughts. Understanding the differences in how you and your partner handle conflict is important. After you learn this, you can work toward finding a way of handling it that works for you both. The most important thing is that you find a good strategy for conflict resolution.

These are some of the complications even the happiest couples deal with.

Which of these are issues in your relationship? Your comments are always welcome!

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  1. I can relate to d last part of the article. We handle conflicts differently. When we have heated argument n I’m d hurt one,I’d rather talk abt it immediately buh he’d rather be alone for a while b4 talking abt things with me n it used to annoy me a lot. He did that quite recently n he actually traveled in anger. I tried talking to him. I just hope we were able to figure out a way to settle conflict in a way that suits us

  2. yea. the last part too. I think a couple of guys prefer to deal with it later while some ladies prefer at the moment. Boo says even in discussing at the moment, we still both angry and nothing gets resolved. I think a common ground should be discovered to enable all issues solved.

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