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Ways To Keep A Guy Interested In You

Ways To Keep A Guy Interested In You

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If you have finally caught the eye of your crush, you should do everything in your power to hang onto him. But getting a man interested and keeping him interested are two different things so you will need to come up with a few simple strategies. There are a lot of ways to make yourself dreamy and desirable in your man’s eyes, you just have to remember a few ways to keep his interest aroused. Most of the times, guys want a woman who is envied by the other girls and who is desired by all the other men. Here are ways to keep a guy interested in you:

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1. Keep him intrigued.

If he likes what he knows so far, he’ll make sure to come around more often to find out more. Don’t be a completely open book, unless that’s who you are naturally. Give the relationship time to simmer, and space out some of your revelations so that you still have the ability to surprise him.

  • Maintain a little bit of mystery. Don’t tell him every little thing you’re doing, every place you’ve been to, every person you’ve seen. Even if you didn’t want to be a little mysterious, sharing every little detail about your past and your whereabouts is likely to be draining to a man.
  • Keep some surprises up your sleeve. Being hunters, explorers, and daredevils, men naturally love surprises. If you schedule a surprise — going skydiving, for example, or a cruise — don’t be afraid to just whisk him away and not tell him about it until he’s right in the thick of it.

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2. Take an Interest in His Hobbies

One of the best things you can do if you want to keep guy interested is to take an interest in his hobbies. You could choose something fun that you can see yourself doing. Just let him know that you are willing to try new things. By sharing common interests you will manage to make your bond stronger and your will increase the intimacy in your relationship.

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3. Find the balance between independence and making sure he’s loved.

Guys are naturally independent, meaning they need a little more space than most women do. Make sure he feels like he has a life outside of you. As much as he likes you, nothing pains him more than to look at his life and realize that he’s lost touch with his friends and no longer gets the respect for wearing the pants, so to speak. Give him space some of the time.
And if you’re worried about trust, don’t be. Trust him. If he gives you a reason not to trust him, then you can start questioning his motives. The truth is that if you trust him and he likes you, he won’t want to give you a reason to revoke that trust. If you don’t trust him when you should, he’ll want to punish you for not trusting him.

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4. Have a Sense of Humor

You will manage to keep a guy interested if you have a good sense of humor because laughter is the best bonding experience. If you will manage to make him smile with your clever wit or with your sassy sarcasm, you will make yourself dreamy and desirable in your man’s eyes.

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5. Make him feel like a man.

There’s nothing wrong with boosting a man’s ego. It makes him feel good about himself and if he feels good about himself because of a certain someone, he’ll want to keep her around. More than likely, he’ll also return the favor.

  • Reinforce the way he wants to be viewed. Does he consider himself an athlete? Tell him how muscular, coordinated, or skilled he is. Does he consider himself an intellectual? Tell him how smart and profound he is. Does he consider himself a comedian? Laugh at his jokes and set him up to be funny.
  • Let him be chivalrous. Pay attention to all the “gentlemanly” things he does for you and acknowledge them. When he opens the door, pays for your meal, or lets you in first, make him feel special!
    Know that he’ll most likely act different around his guy friends. Never tolerate outright disrespect, but if he acts a little strange, it’s because he’s trying to impress his boys. If it doesn’t offend you, let him.

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6. Have Your Own Interests and Hobbies

Men love women who have their own interests and hobbies. Do your own thing and don’t let your life revolve around your man. Have goals and dreams and do everything in your power to pursue them so you can turn those dreams into reality.

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7. Be confident and look great.

He prefers you to other girls, so show you’re proud of yourself! And when it comes to looking great, know your guy. Some guys are attracted to natural beauty; others like a spray tan and eyelashes. Either way, dress to show that you’re comfortable and confident with your body but make sure you don’t go over the top.

  • Don’t compare yourself to other women. Not even in a way that seems acceptable. To a guy, this comparison screams “insecurity,” and the guy is suddenly worried that he might have to be your psychologist instead of your boyfriend.
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