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Ask Your Lover These Questions to Feel Closer…

Ask Your Lover These Questions to Feel Closer…

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You can grow closer to your significant other by asking the right questions.That’s why you should make a point to talk to your lover about as many different subjects as you can.
Here are a few questions that you should ask your significant other the next time you see him or her in order to feel closer to him:

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1. Your lover’s perfect day

Ask your lover what his or her perfect day would consist of. You might find out that your significant other would love to live ocean-side or that your lover would love to spend the whole day in front of the television. Even though you think you know everything about your spouse already, a simple question like this could help you learn something new.

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2. What is it like to be my lover?

Encourage your spouse to answer honestly about the most enjoyable parts and most difficult parts of being in a relationship with you.

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3. What He’s Most Proud of

This sounds like an interview question, but you should ask him what he’s the most proud of accomplishing in life. He might tell you about a race he won as a child or the time he helped a little old lady cross the street. Most people don’t like to brag, so he might not have mentioned the thing that he’s the most proud of about himself.

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4. What is one thing you would change about me if you could?

This isn’t an opportunity for your spouse to pick on your physical features, but rather a chance to help you see blind spots in your personality, your words or your demeanor.

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5. Your lover’s version of how you Met

Everyone experiences the world in a different way. Even though you were in the room the first time your boyfriend or girlfriend saw you and spoke to you, your story about how you met is bound to be different. Ask your lover to explain the first time you met from his or her point of view. He or she is bound to point something out that you don’t remember, or that you never even knew happened.

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6. What is one thing you would change about yourself if you could?

Give your spouse the opportunity to reflect on his or her own fears and shortcomings. Encourage and affirm your spouse in these vulnerable moments.

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7. What He Values the Most about You

He compliments you all the time, but do you actually know all the reasons why he loves you? Ask him what he values the most about you. Make sure you answer the question for him too, so it doesn’t seem like you’re just fishing for compliments.

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8. What He Worries about the Most

Ask him what he worries about the most. Is it his career? Is it his mother’s health? Is it his relationship with you? If you just ask him, you’ll be surprised what deep secrets he’ll open up to you about.

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9. What He’s Most Guilty about

People don’t like to talk about their bad traits. That’s why you probably don’t know what he’s most guilty about doing in life. Maybe he pushed a kid on the playground in elementary school. Maybe he broke his ex’s heart. It’s time to find out what keeps him up at night.

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10. What He’s Most Guilty about

People don’t like to talk about their bad traits. That’s why you probably don’t know what he’s most guilty about doing in life. Maybe he pushed a kid on the playground in elementary school. Maybe he broke his ex’s heart. It’s time to find out what keeps him up at night.

You never know what you’ll learn about a person by asking them a few simple questions. What other topics do you think couples should ask each other about to feel closer?

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