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Exclusive Ways to Handle Watching Your Ex Move on …

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The fluffiest of pop songs can attach itself to a specific event in your mind, suddenly flooding you with memories whenever you hear the tune. In this respect, relationships and breakups are a lot like records, with each memory forming a groove into your mind. Even if you’re mostly over a separation, seeing your ex move on with someone new can be confusing — especially if you haven’t been as lucky in love since the two of you split. Peering into a future that you no longer have with them, a future he or she is now sharing with someone else, can be painful. A part of you knows you weren’t right for each other anyway, but there’s another part that’s stuck on a numb feeling, like a broken record. But without the rest of the melody to frame it, that feeling has no meaning. Remember that it’s just a dull reminder of your past. Here exclusive ways to handle your Ex moving on…

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1. Don’t Torture Yourself

For some reason, we like to cause ourselves pain, which is incredibly unhealthy. So even though you have the urge to look through his Facebook photos to see all of his new pictures with his girlfriend, resist clicking on his page. What good will seeing him kiss her do? It’ll only make you more upset, so avoid stalking him.

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2. To Extinguish The Few Embers That Still Burn Inside Of you, Try To Remember Why Things Ended.

The two of you didn’t work out for a reason. Just because someone else has found happiness with your ex doesn’t mean that you would have. Don’t let these sudden pangs of wanting make you forget whatever happiness you’ve had since your breakup.

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3. Concern Yourself With You, And Don’t Compare Your Life To Theirs.

This isn’t a contest where the person who moves on first is the winner and the other is the loser. Distract yourself from these pesky feelings by taking the time to explore your interests. Dedicate yourself to an old hobby or pick up a new one — anything to get your mind off of your ex’s haves and your have-nots.

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4. Don’t Badmouth Him

If you’re ex did something unforgivable, like cheat on you, then it’s okay to let the world know about his wrongdoings. However, if things just didn’t work out between the two of you, don’t publicly bash him. It’ll make you look worse than it makes him look, because you’ll seem desperate and lonely. While you should feel free to complain about him to your close friends, don’t make statuses about it and spread rumors about him at school or work.

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5. Music Soothes The Savage Beast, But Hit Next When A Breakup Song Comes On.

These songs may make you feel better for a little while, but they’ll also keep you focused on the object of your disaffection. There’s a sad irony to singing along with a tune about how over the relationship you are. Instead, scan your library for songs that make you feel generally better and direct your energy towards the present … without your ex

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6. Don’t Continue Contact

Some couples can break up and remain friends, but if it’s too painful for you to deal with, there’s nothing immature about telling him that you can’t associate with him for any longer. If you can’t imagine letting him leave your life for good, then just put your contact on hold for a few months, until you’re over him. If you keep talking to him while you’re wishing you were together, it’ll only hurt you. Plus, it’ll make his new girlfriend uncomfortable.

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7. Don’t Blame Her

Unless his new girlfriend purposely stole him away from you, there’s no reason to be mean to her. Yes, it’s easy to take your anger out on her, but is it really her fault? All she did was fall for the same guy you fell for and agreed to date him. If she never did anything bad to you, there’s no reason to hate her. If you’re angry, be angry at your ex.

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8. Don’t Hope He’ll Return

When you like someone, crazy scenarios will pop into your head. However, it’s time for them to stop once he has a new girlfriend. Even though there’s a tiny chance that he might be dating her to get you jealous or is just lying about dating completely, it’s probably not the case. Even if it is, you don’t want to be with a liar, so let him go.

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9. Don’t Hesitate to Move on

The best thing you can do once you see your ex move on is to move on yourself. You don’t have to jump into a new relationship with the first guy you see. You should just start flirting again, having fun with your friends, and living a life that you truly enjoy. There’s no reason to mope around when there’s so many fun things to do!

What are your exclusive tips for dealing with an ex moving on? Share with fellow NGTrends readers in a comment below!

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