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Please Advice Me, Has Any Guy Ever Been In This Situation?

Please Advice Me, Has Any Guy Ever Been In This Situation?



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Hello NGTrends Reader,

My longtime girlfriend and I are expecting our first child together and are planning to marry in December. But I was also seeing someone on the side and she’s also pregnant. To be honest I feel bad because she was a virgin and she’s very young – just 19. I am 33. I don’t know what to do in this situation as her parents are very upset and want me to do right by her. My main girlfriend doesn’t know about the other one and her pregnancy and I don’t know how to break it to her. In fact I am confused about my situation. Has any guy ever been in this situation? How did you handle it? Please I really need your advice.



  1. Sorry brother, its really unfortunate, there is nothing new under the son, u hv to take ur decision, it has to be firmed, u hv to make a sacrifice, u can’t marry the two, go ahead wt ur marriage, confront ur younger girlfriend parents, explain things to them, accept responsibility for the pregnancy, but insist u cant marry their daughter for obvious reason, then face ur wife to be, explain everything to her, pray she understand, cos she will know eventually, call ur mummy n tell her everything, she will know what else to do in eventuality when the new one gave birth, put itself together, its going to be a trying period, its one of those things we men foolishly commit, God will see u through


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