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Please Advice Me, I Don’t Know If I Can Cope With This Attitude For The Rest Of My Life

Please Advice Me, I Don’t Know If I Can Cope With This Attitude For The Rest Of My Life


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Hi there, im a regular reader of your blog. I have been dating this chick for close to 3years and we’ve never had s8x. I’m 24 and she’s 23 years old. We sort of had an agreement that we won’t and we wanted to have that one special thing. She’s fun to be with but just too sensitive, she gets mad at everything. Actually, we are sort of on the same level, I finished my masters and I’m currently serving, while she is a BSC holder but just completed her nysc and is searching for a job. She has introduced me to her parents and brought me to her Dad’s house, but she won’t come to my parents place. Maybe because we still stay in a rented apartment. Many times I feel like I’m tying her down and not letting her fly. She makes me feel that way when she says those awful things. I come from a very humble background and my parents often starved themselves just to put my sisters and I in the best schools. My mum believes it’s better to build a child than to build a house. I am proud of my parents, though there are things I would have done better if I were them. If she can’t handle her emotions and keeps giving me a hard time, it will be difficult for me to cope. Her parents like me, they say I’m responsible and calm. I don’t know what they’re talking about, im just me. I’m just scared that one day I may wake up and break up with her, I have a record of making snap judgements that usually turn bad for me.
I love her but I don’t want to be unhappy in my marriage.‎ I don’t know if I can cope with this attitude for the rest of my life.




  1. Hmmm, thats a though one, its almost d same as mine, I use to be in a relationship like dat, were I felt trapped something he makes me feel like am just a pest in his life who doesn’t want to let him free, I had a really had time den, but dats by d way, what I can only tell you is to follow your heart, give it a really hard thought nd try to imagine d future with her, if u really think u won’t be happy with her, cus ur happiness should be ur first priority den pls snap out of it, maybe she has helped u a lot financially nd she now thinks she owns u? Nd maybe u are afraid dat u might not survive without her which is why u are keeping up with her no matter what she did? But I tell u now have faith trust in God he will surely send u a helper, don’t trap urself in something dat u might regret for d rest of ur life, give it space make her know dat even without her u can survive nd if u guys are meant to be den she will change nd be d person u both want for each other, it’s not going to be easy, I know, but let ur zee to be happy drive u, nd u just might find what u are looking for, good luck.


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