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See What Every Man Wants In Bed…

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You obviously shouldn’t let a man dictate how you behave in bed. But in case you were wondering, we’re pretty simple creatures in the sack, really. We don’t want you to do anything outrageous or weird — just a little cowgirl here and there. We just want a s8x life that’s a little spicy, a little sweet, and still occasionally surprising. Easy enough, right? Sure it is! To make the bedroom a s8xual sanctuary, here are the things dudes desire most…

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1. We want you to take control sometimes.

There are few things hotter than a girl who knows what she wants, and there are a lot of different ways to communicate that to a guy. It doesn’t mean you have to bust out whips and leather restraints, and boss us around (but you could). It could be something as simple as pushing us down on the bed and pinning our arms down over our heads while you’re on top. Taking control of which position we’re moving to next can also be really hot. Just like talking dirty, this doesn’t have to be anything too complicated or filthy.

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2. To See You Take Initiative

We’re happy to make the first move, and if you don’t, we will. But it’s so much more rewarding when we know how eager you are. Because no matter how much you seem to enjoy the heat, if you never light the match, we have to wonder if you don’t secretly prefer the cold.

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3. We want to watch you.

Visual stimulation really gets guys going. Choosing positions like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl where we can really get a view of what’s happening is hugely arousing. Alternatively, any position can benefit from a well-placed mirror where we can get a full view of the action. If you’re feeling really courageous, let your man watch you while you touch yourself. If you really want to drive him crazy, don’t let him touch or kiss you during the session, so he gets really worked up. This also has the added benefit of showing him what turns you on because he can see how you get yourself off.

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4. Dirty Talk
Or at the very least, some encouraging moans to let us know when we’re on the right track

5. To Make You Orgasm
It’s not all about us, and we know it. So, please—tell us what you want. We aim to please.

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6. We want to be surprised.

I’ll admit, some guys can be intimidated if you start pulling out vibrators from underneath the mattress in the middle of s8x. But throwing some new things in there to shake up your lovemaking is really never a bad idea. You can even make the s8x itself a surprise: Jump your significant other in the hallway or on the stairs, and just turn it into a s8x session. Moments like that, where you can’t control yourself and just have to have us, are always appreciated. Introducing some costumes, his-and-her lubricants, toys, and role-playing can also work. Just keep in mind that some of this stuff is outside of people’s comfort zones. Make sure you know what your guy likes before you bust out the latex nun outfit and rubber fist.

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7. A Sense of Humor
When things go wrong, it can either be hilarious, or devastating. Our ability to laugh together makes the difference.

8. S8xy Lingerie
We know you mostly wear it to turn us on, and we really, really appreciate it—even if we seem to barely notice as we rip it off and toss it on the floor.

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9. We want you to initiate new positions.

We really like it when you throw us a curveball. If there’s a new position you’ve found that you want to try, please go for it. It can be some hugely creative, elaborate s8x circus that involves a Jacuzzi, whipped cream, and bananas, but introducing a modification to old standbys like doggy or missionary can also work. Don’t even worry about whether or not the position ends up “working” for the two of you. It’s a turn-on just knowing we’re doing something you want to try.

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10. Safety
Unless we’re in a long-term relationship, you’re taking the Pill, and we’ve both been tested for STDs, then c8ndoms are still part of the equation. Odds are, we have one with us. But what if we run out? Or we forget it? If you can whip out a rubber like s8xual Houdini, that’s hot. Even better is if you occasionally pull it out before we have a chance to. It shows us that you’re committed to our s8x life, and that you’re willing to take joint responsibility for our safety.

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