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Showing off These Secret Skills Is Sure To Get Any Guy’s Attention …

Showing off These Secret Skills Is Sure To Get Any Guy’s Attention …

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That one guy that you’re always caught staring at, the one who you seem to fall in love with everyday, but he never notices! It can be frustrating to be crazy in love with someone who has never seen you more than just in the halls. If you need that special guy to notice you, here are a few skills that are sure to get any guy’s attention…

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1. Make Him See How Intelligent You Are

No, showing your crush that you got an A on a test probably won’t impress him. But if you get into a conversation with him and start showing off your smarts by telling him interesting tidbits about the world, he will be impressed. It’s all about how you go about flaunting your intelligence.

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2. Love yourself.

A guy is much more likely to notice a girl who loves who she is and whose proud of herself and the way she carries herself. If you look like you’re already happy with yourself and your life, then the guy will want to be a very large part of it. If you seem desperate to find a guy to make you feel whole, you’ll be much less likely to attract any man that comes your way.

  • Learn to love being yourself. Not meeting someone else’s standards of beauty, or of how a woman should act.
  • Love whatever you do, whether it’s talking to friends or being in class. A guy will be able to tell if you’re content with living your life, and will want to join in.

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3. Have fun wherever you go to have a good time.

A guy will be much more likely to notice you if you just look like you’re having a blast. Though it may be hard to look like you’re ballin’ if you’re taking a math test or sitting in a waiting room at the dentist’s, you should always stay positive. Smile whenever and where-ever you can, and laugh often.

  • If a guy sees you out with girlfriends, you’ll look much more appealing if you’re laughing, giggling, and just looking like you’re having an awesome time.
  • Don’t spend all of your time looking around the room for someone better to talk to or checking your phone — if you look like you don’t want to be there, a guy will take the hint, and leave you alone, obviously if you look like you don’t want to talk.

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4. Modesty = Mystery = He’ll Want to Know More

Lots of girls will tell you to show a little leg or cleavage to catch a guy’s attention. It works. He’ll notice you all right, but for all the wrong reasons. It’s no secret that boys are visually stimulated. If you show off all your goodies, then that’s all he’ll think you’re good for. Instead of seeing you as an intelligent, gorgeous girl, he’ll be preoccupied with what you look like naked. There are plenty of ways to dress hot without exposing yourself. So leave a little to the imagination. The more he has to hunt, the more he’ll want to know.

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5.  Never look desperate for attention.

It’s great to catch the guy’s eye from time to time and to go back to laughing with your friends. It’s not-so-great to stare at the guy, smile too eagerly, and step away from your friends as you wait for him to approach you. Don’t apply your makeup in public, fidget with your outfit, or keep walking past the guy 100 times hoping he’ll just walk over to you. This will certainly make him notice you — but not in the boyfriend type of way.

  • If he doesn’t notice you right away, don’t force it by awkwardly tapping him or winking at him. This will only push him away.

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6. Catch his eye.

If you want the guy to notice you, then you should hold his gaze for just the right amount of time. Don’t longingly stare into his eyes for hours — just keep eye contact for a few seconds to show him you’re interested. Don’t look too eager, but let him see that you’d be open to talking if he approached you. You can even give the guy a little smile to show that you want to see where this goes.

  • When he does approach you, give him a coy but distinct smile to let him know that you want to start talking to him.

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6. Make a good first impression.

You only get one first impression, so you should make it count. Once the guy notices you and comes over to you, you should be friendly without coming on too strong, and approachable and just easy to be around. Put him at ease by making a small joke or poking fun at yourself, and avoid any negative or controversial topics to show him that you’re fun to talk to.

  • Just smile and keep things light. You can talk about the deep stuff later.
  • Don’t complain right off the bat. Guys want to hang out with girls who like to have a good time instead of nagging or being negative. If you’re negative right away, that says something about what it would be to hang out with you all the time.

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7. Be a Friend

Someone once told me that the best way to make friends is to be a friend. A smile and a “hi” can go a long way. I know it’s hard to fathom when you can barely breathe around him, but try to focus. Sitting next to him in lecture room before class starts is a perfect time to turn, smile, and say, “Hey, how’s it going?” It’s called “breaking the ice”. I know a lot of people who lament being friends with someone they’re romantically interested in, but that’s the best place to start. Trust me. Sixty years from now, it’s the friendship that will lead you into the golden, wrinkly, saggy years of marriage.

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8. Show what makes you special.

It’s great to get noticed, but guys can notice lots of girls. You should make him see what makes you so special by opening up a bit and talking about the things you care about — just not too much. Let him know what you love to do in your free time, how much you love your pets, or just mention a crazy experience you had, like climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro or studying abroad in Buenos Aires.

  • Whatever you talk about, let the guy see your passion for your life and your interests.
  • You should let him see that you’re special, but don’t just monopolize the conversation by talking about how great you are. Make sure that you’re both contributing equally to the conversation.
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