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Please Advise Me, I Am Confused On What To Do With My Life…

Please Advise Me, I Am Confused On What To Do With My Life…


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Hi NGTrends Readers,
I am 26years old, I live and study in Europe  am graduating next year. Currently I am staying at my mum’s place in Paris. I have this white girlfriend for a year now and she came to visit me twice and my mum wants me to get married to her as soon as i graduate next year, but she went back she had lied to me in so many occasions which I found out that she lied. My mum keeps pressurizing me on getting married but I do not think she will understand if I tell her how she has been lying of recent. For her it is easier to get my permanent residency when I get married to the white girl, even when she know I can still get a working permit as soon as I graduate but still she insist this way is more easier. Now my problem is I really do not want to get married to someone who I have any reason to doubt please advice.



  1. if you don’t want to go ahead Cos of her lying habits, please I beg you don’t do it, cos she is lying now what do u know she will do after union. And as for ur mum, pray dt d Lord reveals the girl’s character to her dt she will change her decision, do not jeopardize ur future my friend

  2. Bro, jst tel ur mum what she doesn’t knw abt ur so called future wife. May be she will understand.. One step at a time

  3. Pls dnt Marry her since der is no trust or u wud be making d biggest mistake of ur Life,explain 2 ur Mum n tell her ur fears,if she truely have ur best interests @ heart then she wud Listen,i pray dat God gives u d courage 2 do dis…gudluck!


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