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Please Advise Me, My World Is Crumbling Right Before Me…

Please Advise Me, My World Is Crumbling Right Before Me…



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Hi NGTrends Readers,

I need solutions, it all seems like my world is crashing right before me. I’m 28 years old and I’m in a relationship of about 2 years now. I work with an insurance company and life has been good until my boyfriend lost his job roughly 10 months ago. And everything changed. I cater for him and myself as well since then. He continually nags about not having a job despite his applications for a new one. And to be very honest this whole situation sucks life out of me. So I decided to meet my boss at the office and I asked if he could help in any way. He accepted but requested sex with me and because I felt fed up with my boyfriend’s situation, I gave in to sleep with my boss but we’d an agreement that it will be a one time stuff. I was desperate and was willing to sacrifice for my boyfriend. Weeks later my boyfriend got the job and according to the company policy, employees must have a 3 months training before confirmation. This situation led to my boyfriends being trained at my branch of the company,which is also where my boss that gave him the job works. Just less than 6 weeks my boss couldn’t let me stay for a day without further request for sex and in the process my boyfriend founad out the whole thing. He quit the job instantly and left town without a word. Doesn’t take my calls to hear my side of the whole thing. I feel confused as I’ve only intended to assist but it’s all falling on me now.I wrote so that I can have a public view and advice on what to do. Is there a chance or anything I could do to salvage the situation because I love my boyfriend so much. Please I need help.




  1. Well I’m sorry it turned out this way but first mistake was to sleep with your boss to help your boyfriend because he will never see the fact that you did that to help me because put yourself in his shoes I’m sure you will be mad to and not want to forgive him. Well as to going forward a mistake was done and cannot be repeated twice that’s is don’t give in to sex again with your boss he might threaten you to resign but if u are a Christian as God for forgiveness and take him up to God. for your boyfriend give him some time don’t call not text then much later when you fill he is calm call him and sit him down to talk. If he still wants the relationship good but Pray it still remain as it was and if he is no longer interested my dear move on with you life. It’s not easy but you can try.

  2. gal u should learn to move on wit ur life…. buh u shuldt av gonna dat far just 2 get him a job, der is always tym for everitin in lyf, if he did nt pick up let him be….

  3. Sex is not sth u gv out 2 gain favour. I understand d state of mind of ur guy. U thought u wer doing him a favour out of love but he considers it as infidelity. Let him calm down then try talking to him.
    But I think u should start thinking of moving on.


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