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Amazing Signs That Indicate You Are In A Mature Relationship…

Amazing Signs That Indicate You Are In A Mature Relationship…

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While puppy love and immature relationships definitely have a very important place in everyone’s lives, the reality is that it can’t always be that way. You can’t be a woman in her 20s or 30s who’s still having the same type of relationship you had when you were 19. If you do, then it’s clear sign that you’re not evolving — and life is about evolution. Every woman deserves a mature relationship, and there’s no time like the present to examine the relationship that you have with your partner and figure out if it’s a mature one. But as much as a mature relationship is important — especially for people looking to get hitched and/or have babies sometime soon — it doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be all grown-up 24/7. You can still call in sick to work because the beach is calling your name, and you and your partner can still chase each other down the street with water guns, too.

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Where your relationship does need to step it up is in how you communicate, how you deal with issues when they arise, and your ability to resolve problems without throwing childish fits about things. Basically, being in a mature relationship means thinking as a team, and considering the feelings and needs of the person you’re in a relationship with ― while chasing each other with Super Soakers, of course.

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1. Your action speak of your love for each other

When you are in a healthy relationship and the person truly loves you, you’ll see it in their actions. In a mature relationship saying ‘I love you’  every minute and signing all your texts with “xoxo” isn’t important, it shows in every little thing they do; the way they hold the door for you, smile at you, cook your favorite meal for you, brush away a loose strand of hair from your face. You feel loved and cared for, there is a warmth of actions. You don’t need verbal reminders of their love (which aren’t completely absent) to verify their feelings for you, because you can SEE it.

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2. You don’t have to be in contact 24/7

Part of an adult relationship is realizing that each person has his or her own world, separate of one another. This means that being together all the time or constantly texting just isn’t feasible, and that is okay.  Actually, it’s even nice. I love my boyfriend, but if I talked to him constantly, I’d go crazy.

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3. You talk about your feelings

As much as talking about your feelings can be really hard for some people, a big sign that you’re in a mature relationship is that you can discuss these types of things. You can tell your partner when you’re hurt by something they said, or that you’re happy because of something they did. If when they forget your anniversary, you can express your disappointment without hesitation … while refraining from throwing a plate at their head.

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4. You can function without them

Immature relationships usually have some level of neediness in them — and if you remember back to your high school relationships, you’ll realization that this is very true. Mature relationships are about being able to function as two parts of one whole, and not freaking out or obsessively checking in on your partner when you’re not physically together.

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5. You guys handle disagreement well

All couples have their moments of disagreements, it’s how you handle them shows whether your relationship has ripened or not. Nothing decides the health of a relationship more than how a couple argues. In a mature relationship, the couple has learned each other’s patterns of anger and adjusted well to it, you have agreed upon a way of resolving conflict. The love doesn’t fade away even on the bad days, you don’t hurt each other just because you were angry, in fact you work towards solving the issue as a team. You can even call out on each other and it won’t result into a fight, because you know your partner means well for you and you help each other to grow and improve.

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6. You believe in resolution as opposed to running away

Because every single couple fight, Observing how the other person argues and adjusting your own style is a learning process, but part of a mature relationship. For example, I tend to shut down when I am angry, whereas my boyfriend is more direct. Adjusting to this was difficult at first, but now that we know each other’s style of disagreement, we are able to communicate in a more mature manner.

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7. There is no jealousy

The level of trust that you have for each other leaves no room for any jealousy, you both can have friends of the opposite gender without turning your partner into a psychotic stalker. Jealousy arises when you feel insecure in your relationship, but in a mature relationship you know that your partner will never be dishonest with you, you have a strong committed relationship. You guys realize that jealousy is a wasted emotion, so you don’t give each other any reasons to have any doubts. Although jealousy can be healthy in small doses, in a mature relationship, there’s not much of it, because you trust each other implicitly. You know that you don’t have to fear that your partner is going to betray you, because cheating is child’s play, and the actions of a weak and immature person.

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8. You accept their Quirks

When they snore, they make a noise of what you imagine a dying horse would make, and yet you accept it. Some days, you even love that weird noise, even though you can’t even begin to fathom where it comes from.

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