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Here Is The Reason Why Men “Play It Cool”….

Here Is The Reason Why Men “Play It Cool”….

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NGTrends asked men why they hide their feelings, or “play it cool” I asked why they often put up pretenses that they are cool, “macho,and tougher than they feel.They do this because they feel they have to especially when dealing with women.Women often wonder why men take so long to make a phone call. For example,a man asks for her phone number and then wait six days before calling. Then he takes her out on a really fun date and wait till another five days before calling again.Meanwhile, she scratching her head and asking, “what’s up with that?”

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Men are used to been turn down by women so this delaying tactics is how they keep their guard up.In the beginning, he will be calculated.He will rational as opposed to emotional,because to him appearing too obvious or emotional will be perceived as assign of weakness. For example, on Tuesday he will say to himself,I think i will call her on Thursday.Most men don’t have a clue that the woman would have preferred a call on Tuesday. So why do they do it?They do it to “save face” and to give the impression they are “in control” of the situation. An attractive guy by the name of Abbey surprised me with his candor.He said,”you have to approach women looking like u do it all the time, and it isn’t a big deal to you.The minute you act like it important to you,the woman smells it and she treats you differently.” This is the reason men will wait before calling and then act a little bit cavalier.They believe that women disrespect men who appear weak.

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What you can take away from this;Do not take it personally if he doesn’t call for a day or two. Often when it seems
as tho he is slightly rejecting you, it can be a compliment in disguise; He wants you so much that he doesn’t want to appear too obvious
about it.Other times men pull back deliberately to see what your reaction will be,because they are curious to see how much you care.
If you don’t believe me, keep reading.

Here’s what these sneaky devils copped to…

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1. “Guys want women to think they have other options with women,even when they don’t.So,they exaggerate. They do it to make themselves look more attractive to a woman.”

2.  Sure,men play cool.Because they think the woman is going to find them more attractive or appealing.I know some guys that check out women who aren’t even beautiful,just” to make sure his girlfriend a little insecure.”

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3. Guys don’t want to admit it to themselves that one woman can have that kind of control over them. It deflates our egos to think that women can affect us that much.We don’t want to feel like we have no control over ourselves.

4. I may not call a girl in the beginning because I don’t want to give the impression that I’m too eager”.

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5. Guys are just emotional as women are.They just don’t show it because society says you aren’t supposed to.As a guy,you have to be in control of yourself.”

6. When she acts like she doesn’t care,it can scare you.Women can crush men and they don’t even know it.If a woman puts are foot down and walks away?It can crush a guy……”

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7. If a man is really falling for a particular woman, a lot of time he’ll try to conceal it.Very few men will ever break down and cry over a woman in front of her.”

8. Of course men play cool…to get women in us.We want women to like us and don’t want them to think we are too eager. If you show you are too interested right off the bat, women will think you are desperate.”

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9. Sometimes,I’ll pretend to ignore a woman in the beginning,or I won’t call as much to keep a woman’s interest. No guy wants to look desperate.”

10. Men are needier s8xually.Women can control their s8x drives,whereas men are controlled by theirs”.

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11. Guys do it to appeal to women. Most guys believe that nice guys finish last and that women on some level want a bad boy”.

12. If you appear weak, people take advantage of you.Some men think if you open up too much,a woman will use it against you”.

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13. If you let a woman know that you haven’t been in the company of a woman recently, she could get the impression that you are desperate or just trying to be with any woman.”

14. Women are in control, because they control the s8x.  Infact, women have a lot of control than they know,a lot of guys feel like puts us at a disadvantage.”

15. When a guy plays cool,he thinks he’s impressing the woman with his power or his strength. He’s just trying to be hip,like he knows what’s up. No guy wants to be perceived as a Mommy’s boy or a wimp”.

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