Note this Beautiful Relationship Principle and never forget it…
“WHEN A WOMAN RUSHES IN TOO QUICKLY, A MAN WILL ASSUME SHE IS IN LOVE WITH A “FANTASY” OR THE IDEA OF HAVING A RELATIONSHIP. BUT IF HE HAS TO SLOWLY WIN HER
OVER, INCREMENTALLY, HE’LL THINK SHE’S FALLING IN LOVE WITH WHO HE IS”.
To him, a vacant BOYFRIEND SLOT or an open HUSBAND POSITION looks about as desire able as stepping into an open bear trap. He wants to feel like he won a special girl who isn’t easily obtained. And no guy feels that way if she comes across as having an opening that as available before you even got there.
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A Man interviewed about this topic explained :
“My ex-girlfriend told me, MOST MEN
WOULD JUMP AT THE CHANCE TO MARRY ME.
AND IF YOU DON’T MARRY ME, I MIGHT END
UP MARRYING ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS. That’s
like a guy saying to a woman, IF YOU
DON’T B8NG ME I’LL GET ONE OF YOUR GIRL-
FRIENDS TO DO IT. Women say that stuff
about marriage all the time and have no
idea how it comes across.
In his mind, you are cheapening the relationship. You want a husband quickly, but you don’t necessarily want quality. That makes him feel like an ordinary chump. And everyone wants to feel like they are special. Also, joking wont make your motives any less obvious.