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Major S8x Mistakes Women Make…

Major S8x Mistakes Women Make…

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Ladies, be honest: When your s8x life becomes a little humdrum, outcomes the mental catalog of all the ways your partner is not quiet measuring up. Guys tends to get a bad rap when it comes to understanding women’s body and whats turns us on, making them easy target in the blame game when s8xual satisfaction starts to win. And sure, they make their fair share of bedroom error. But as the saying goes, it takes two to tangle. As it turns out, top s8x and relationship expert say that women make plenty of s8x mistakes of their own. Here are the major mistakes women make in the bedroom and what you can do to get the satisfaction you so rightly deserve…

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1.  Not Initiating S8x With Your Partner

Many of us worry about lady like behavior. We do not want to appear pushy or come on too strong for fear of being labeled aggressive. According to a professor of psychology falling to initiate s8x is one of the biggest mistakes women make. Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship. Generally men wants to be purse by  their partners just as much as women do. Holding on to outdated ideas about s8x roles also inhibit satisfaction with our s8xual relationship. They use to think women are less interested in s8xual activities and I do not want to say that any more. I think they are women who are as interested in s8x as men. Show you interested to your significant other by taking the first step from time to time. Your partner will likely appreciate it, and you may find a new level of satisfaction in taking responsibility for your s8xual experience.

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2.  Believing He Is Always Up For S8x

Sure, most teenage boys are ready and willing just about any time you ask, but not true for men. The pressures of everyday life family,bills,work can zap a man’s libido. This comes as a big surprise to many women, and often his lack of interest in s8x is something we take personally. “It comes as such(to women) that they do not just believe it”, it is said about the reaction many women have when their partner says they are not in the mood for s8x. “They know themselves that they are not always interested in s8x but they still love the man. But when they discover he does not want to have s8x, they think he does not love me. Not true he just does not want to have s8x.”

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3. Worrying About What You Look Like

Thinking about how you look during s8x stops you from enjoying yourself and ruins your chances of achieving an org8sm. Do not think about the fat on your belly or the make up on your face, concentrate on the pleasure of the act. You must give yourself permission to have an org8sm. Men want their wives to abandon themselves in s8x play, and that is not likely if she is anxious about her physical concerns, because men do not notice half the things women obsess about anyway.

It is amazing what men do not notice if they are enthusiastic, energetic, interested in them, and flexible minded. There is an evolutionary explanation for the selective blindness men show to our physical flaws for some reasons (unconsciously of-course) looking for women who are able to bear healthy babies. Millions of years ago men who attracted fertile women and had a lot of children lived on. Those who could not died out. Although maybe not as necessary today, that primer survival mechanism lives on. Men are much more attracted to women who show signs of health, youth and fertility. Rather than worry about the shape of your waist and hips, worrying about you energy level and enthusiasm and interest in him.

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4. Not Giving Him Guidance

Talking very directly about s8x, what we like and do not like can make us feel uncomfortable, if with a partner we have been with for a long time and otherwise feel close to. But it is the only way to achieve a satisfying s8xual relationship. A woman must take responsibility for her s8xual encounter. No man can bring a woman to  org8sm is she does not take responsibility for her s8xual experience. Even the best lover can not know what she needs without her letting him know. The good news is that men very much wants to please women. If you can tell them in a way that does not kill their ego they will appreciate it. It is advisable for women to sandwich what they do not like in between five things they do, because he is listening. You will not find out until the next time you are in bed with him. But men do listen, particularly if you are clear about it.

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5. Getting Upset When He Suggests Something New

After a couple has been together for a while, it is natural to want to spice things up with a little variety. Just because your man wants to try something new does not mean he is unhappy with you or your s8x life. In short honey, do not take it personally still it is important that you tune into your comfort zone.

Nobody should ever feel obligated to do something they do not want to do in the personal and intimate area of s8xuality. If your man asks about trying something that is outside of your morals, make it clear that it is off limit for you and explain why. Of course, do this in a loving way as best as you can. If it is something that is not really a moral issue for you but you still do not want to again explain why. if it is simply a startling request and you are initially uneasy about it, try not to over react. Instead, let him know you need sometime to think about it.

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6. Assuming S8x Is Causal For A Man

we should let go of old fashion notion such as women are not s8xual or that s8x is just s8x to men. For some men, s8x is a very important act. Do not minimize it. Research supports the idea that both men and women find s8xual intimacy in the context of a committed relationship to be more satisfying. Numerous research studies make it very clear that the people who have the best quality and most frequent s8x are married couples. That says a lot about the inadequacies of casual s8x.

In a study being conducted engaging in one-night stands, the numbers show that men are just as serious about s8x and relationship as women. In-fact more than 50% of women and 52% of men who went into a one-stand believed they did so hoping to create a longer relationship. One-third of them actually did so. What is the lesson?

Never assume that a man is not romantic. Two huge mistakes in this culture are that women are not s8xual and that men are not as romantic as women.

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