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Please Advise Me, Is There Anyway I Can Maneuver This Without Going Under The Knife?

Please Advise Me, Is There Anyway I Can Maneuver This Without Going Under The Knife?



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Hi NGTrends Readers,

Am newly wedded 5months to be precise please help save my marriage Am 24 year old lady, I met my bf who’s now my husband in a eatery near my school we got talking and I liked his person,he’s cute and above all he works in a bank to cut it all short he’s just perfect for me,we started dating till he invited me over to his house, I was so glad that at least I will get to meet with someone in his family although he told me his brother stays with him.

That evening I visited, his brother wasn’t home not quit long we started talking he walked in geez this guy his even looking more handsome than my bf the way he smiled at me just melted my soul,we both greeted and he went into his room, seeing him walk alone into his room just make me start fantasizing about having him, it took me few minutes to realize what I was doing,he later came out and my bf formally introduced him to me I was so shocked to know he was running his PGD program in my school and sometimes he stays somewhere in an apartment he rented off campus just for the purpose of his program, he casually gave me the address and I stored it in my head,before leaving I requested for his number so I can call him to know when he’s in school he obliged my bf only smiled at our conversation.

A week after I placed a call through to him and asked if he was on campus he replied no but will let me know when he’s in,the next day he called me and said I should meet him at the park on campus I quickly rushed down to see him,we greeted and he hugged me,his hug was just the best I’ve ever had.

After talking for a while he said he’s leaving for his base off campus, hun opportunity I said to myself then I turned to him and ask if he could let me come with him so I will get to know where he stays, he said sure; get into the car so we drove down to his place,the closeness got closer till I achieved my aim which is we ended up having se.x,I wish he’s the one am dating but I just cannot do anything about it.

I got married to my husband a year later but through out this period I and his younger brother kept having affairs behind him not only that, I took in for him several times but had to use pills to get rid of it. until this last one I tried all the available pills but to no avail,now am confused on what to do am currently staying off campus for the fear of going back home I lied to my husband I will be writing my exams and so will be staying over for that period he agreed because he promised to always respect my decision, when he came visiting he noticed changes in me but not to the point of suspecting am pregnant.

His brother wants the pregnancy out at all cost and even threatened to kill me if I don’t get rid of it and fast too, he gave me huge sum of money to go get it off but am just too scared to go under the knife for fear of dying as a result of betraying my husband, what do I tell my husband, am newly wedded 5months to be precise, my life is just doomed right now, I know if he finds out am headed straight for a divorce because his family won’t accept this mess. I need your advice is There anyway I can maneuver this without going under the knife and save my marriage.

Pls do advice on what to do before my husband finds out.



  1. Hmmm….women,life ain’t fair,all these useless girls always end up with good guys,why? u have to reap the reward of what u have sown,u can’t eat ur cake and have it.

  2. if this is for real, then woman, am not judging you because am not God, but you must not go unpunished. How can you be so unfair.

  3. The best thing to do is to ask God for forgiveness nd tell ur husb d husb. The funniest thing is dat ur husb might even abt ur affairs buh mayb he jus want u to tel him d truth urself.. Let me tell u, if u go for anoda abortion u might die nd end up in hell fire or loose ur womb foreva nd u knw dat wn’t be good.. Just av d courage, beg God to forgv U nd be plain to ur husb nd tell him d truth coz it will be soooo bad he heard abt it outside.

  4. my own advice for you is that just ask GOD for forgiveness and tell your husband the truth. and I pray that GOD will help you,haaahaa woman wicked ooooo..just enjoyment of five minutes…

  5. Idiot ni eee na thunder will strike you what is d Enjoymnt dat u can’t enjoy from your hubby,u disgut me with your adultery Awwww women but we’re quet differnt ohh we’ll ur secret will not cover it’ll leak out nd ur hubby will throw u out of d house bck to d street u was.mitweew

  6. It’s a win win situation for the family. Whether na ur hubby child or ur brother in-law child, all na for the family. So make una enjoy. Remember that u can’t commit murder and suicide at the same time. Better consider the chain reaction

  7. Normally I protect ladies, I don’t like judging people, I fight for ladies n always look for a reason to defend dem wen it comes to their relationship problems buh my dear in dis case, u went too far, chai, u went too far! What was going on in ur mind wen u were doing dis? Dearie, it’s not his friend we r talking of here it’s his brother, how could you commit such shameful act, even to d point of taking in n aborting several times, baby where is ur conscience? U couldn’t even stop after marriage, dearie u know try at all!!

  8. Dearie, u obviously don’t love your hubby, even your reasons for liking him are so shallow. Most of all he is a banker”. And u slept with his brother due to his physical attraction, you will still meet finer men over time, which means u might sleep with them. Neways the choice is yours. Your life or a marriage that’s doomed from the get go anyways. Not judging. Just telling you to be wise, cut your losses now to avoid future mishaps

  9. Some women sha, you are just doomed,you hurt a beautiful soul,there are many good women with evil men,and God gave you an angel,but you miss used it

  10. U are the biggest fool hv ever met u are the kind of womaw that they us to curse woman nahawa oooo I pray God take people like u out of this word ki lo de

  11. D girl is wicked…even after marriage? Well the brother is wicked n as such could wish is brother is dead just to hv his wife..married women kills faster dan a bullet. Confess so u can end it, cause u will continue having mad sex even after u get rid of it.


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