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Please Advise Me How Do I Tell My Friend This Dishearten News?

Please Advise Me How Do I Tell My Friend This Dishearten News?


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Hi NGTrends Readers,

My best friend has been dating this guy for 18months. She loves him very much and he loves her too. Because of her I got close to this guy, he is almost my best friend because we are pretty close. Now the problem is that this buy(my best friend’s boyfriend) sent me a message some days back saying he picked the wrong girl, that he fell in love with me the first time we met, he said we had so much more in common than him and  his girl friend (my best friend), he said he hates and regrets his decision to date my best friend buy he will live with it. He said he loves me and wants to be with me so much, but he is not the guy I am chasing and he can live with that. I do not know what I am supposed to do! I do not love him at all and I do not want to be in a relationship with him. So now please advice me, how am I suppose to tell my best friend that the guy she loves and wants to spend the rest of her life with, actually loves me and he regrets his decision to date her? I love my best friend so much she really means a lot to me I do not want to see her hurt and I do not want to lose my friendship with her. Please help!



  1. The guys is a game player, he want to taste your sweetness and fuck you hard lol, he won chop you and your best friend….I have girl friend as well and my girl friend has best friend of her as well like yours anything I tell her friend ,she always tell my girl friend..so tell your best friend the message the guy sent to you.

  2. You may be the problem, try and adjust your closeness to that guy. Advice the guy to be patient with your friend nbecause she is nice. And remember one more must love more than the other one. The guy will soon be use to your frind. Do not show her the message or you might be blame by your friend

  3. Just keep it 2ur self…. if u end up telln her, she might start puttn d blames on u for….1, going close 2 d guy. 2,making him fall in love wit u, 3, telln her her her 2 leave d guy nd u 2 get into d picture. Be wise nd stay clear from him, ohk

  4. Believe mean lady, u also av been nursing a feeling for this guy cos if u avnt, his text won’t go u confuse, u shud av reply him immediately via text as well. Telling him to stay focus on ur friend and dat u av ur own man dat u love, u appreciate his love for u bt d love wud be much more appreciated wen showered greatly on ur friend.

    So check ursef, u will find how to deal wit this. If u av been nursing a feeling for him…..ready to make do wit ur friendship cos u ar in for great shit!

  5. I feel ur pain,,well u gotta tell him u ain’t down with the whole development,,he seems rather unstable,,no one forced him into the relationship in the first place,,if u let him in,its definitely gonna cost u ur friendship and there is no telling if u r gonna eventually be his last bus stop or he is gonna skip to the next girl as soon as he is done with ya,,,,

  6. if u do keep it to ur self there is a possibility dat she would end up finding out cos d guy said he regrets been with her n it would hurt u more to want to c ur frnd go on with a guy dat doesn’t really want her.i have a frnd n I don’t think I would want to blame my frnd if she tells me something like this.u would only b betraying ur frnd if u don’t let her knw.u have already made a mistake by not replying d guy n telling him to back out don’t make another one cos u myt regret it

  7. To me d guy just want to use you even if u agree to take d risk with him he will still not leave your friend and then you will now lose both of them

  8. This shouldn’t t be a confusing event for you ,you should know what 2 do if you are in your right sense ,however for the sake of advice ..don’t give in to his craving ..the guy just wanna kpansh you just like he’s doing your bestie… He don’t deserve either of you … Na bad boy run from am…

  9. It simple just keep your distance away from them. Have no connection or contact with the guy, see your friend when need be. Ur friend will notice urs separation then she will understand and ask u then u can let her know exactly everything.


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