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Please Advise Me, I Do Not Want To Fall Into This Temptation…

Please Advise Me, I Do Not Want To Fall Into This Temptation…


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Hi NGTrends Readers,

This is my predicament, have been dating this lady for almost two years now and anytime we want to have s3..x I usually don’t have an Attention. This is unlike me because usually I am very active when it comes to s3..x. Even when I watch a simple music videos I feel an Attention in me. But anytime am about to make love to my fiancee, even if I had an Attention it just goes down. Sometimes even when I succeed in having an Attention it dies in the middle of the s3..x. We have never had a complete round of s3..x before. I thought something was wrong with me so I tried having s3..x with another lady and this didn’t happen. Please people I’m here because I need your help on what to do because am about to start marriage plans, but I don’t want a marriage I will not enjoy or where I will be cheating outside. Please help me everyone including pastors in the house.




  1. Bro……dis is serious…..remember that it won’t change if u marry her…so don’t just assume all is going to be fine

  2. Let me tell u that u don’t have a problem, your inability to have sex with ur fiancé is as a result of ur probable consumption of digital pornography which has altered the way ur brain responds to sex physically. That’s y u can have an erection when u watch videos but can’t when you are physically with a person. The reason you could manage an erection with another is another psychological effect known as the Coolidge Effect ( u can Google that to get more understanding) however that won’t cure ur ED. Because after a period you would begin to experience the same challenges with this new partner. The simple cure is stop watching pornography and if u masturbate while watching porn or when alone deduce from that. Stay off sex for a couple of weeks (no less than 3 weeks) then meet your partner again. Am sure u will see the difference. Merry xmas

  3. I will advice you to talk it out with her and maybe she is doing something to turn you off. I think it will workout when you discuss what you dislike in bed and what you like. Maybe that’s where the problem is.

  4. Rocboy got it spot on. Heed his advice and start by emptying ur phone of all sex videos, especially the ones u love most


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