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Sure Signs You Are His Side Chic…

Sure Signs You Are His Side Chic…

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Within the past few years, guys having a “side chick” has reached an all time high. There are songs, movies, and even books about being the other woman, which is pretty messed up. You’d think men would “keep it 100” and tell you if they weren’t ready to be in a relationship with only one person (or that he’s actually already with someone when you meet). Instead, they’ve gotten a lot more clever and underhanded in their tactics and they know how to keep their girlfriends and their side pieces separate. Also, being a side chick is no longer an embarrassment to some women, which gives men more reason to have one. Here are a few signs that he’s actually in a relationship with someone else and you are just his side piece of meat…

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1. He always has his phone on him.

For one thing, if you were really relationship material in his eyes, he probably wouldn’t be glued to his phone all the time. We’re not saying you’re definitely a side chick just because he’s constantly texting or Tweeting or posting status updates, but there’s probably something going on if he won’t let you look at his phone. Beyond that, you’re probably a side chick if you text all the time but never talk on the phone, but you’re definitely a side chick if he has you saved under a fake name. We don’t personally know any guys who use multiple phones, but that should be considered an automatic “yes” if you’re wondering if you’re a side chick.

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2. He buys you shit to keep you happy.

Hush gifts are things he buys for you when you start talking about serious shit, like moving in together, committing, or spending time with his family, and an argument sparks. Because he wants to keep you as his side chick, he finds your material weakness and plays on that to stray you away from the serious topics and also to keep you around.

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3. He’s M.I.A. for major holidays.

There’s a reason that both February 13 and 15 are known as “National Side Chick Day” by different groups of people. When he’s gone for every major holiday (particularly ones usually celebrated with loved ones), it’s not all that unlikely that you’re just one of the ladies he’s got coming off of the bench for him. We’re not saying that he’s not just spending Christmas, Halloween, Easter, Thanksgiving, Valentine’s Day, and the others with his family, but you may want to consider how serious he’s really taking you if he’s not spending at least a few of those with you. If he’s not seeing you on Valentine’s Day, you’re probably not the only one getting his invitation to make it up to you on Arbor Day.

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4. He seems completely disconnected when you get emotional with him.

When women date, they anticipate the time in their relationships when they fall for the guy and can tell him how they feel. However, if you open up to your man and tell him how you feel repeatedly and he doesn’t reciprocate and/or tries to downplay the entire topic, this could be a sign that his heart lies elsewhere.

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5. He refuses to show affection in public.

PDA should never be an issue in any relationship, so long as it’s within reason. But if you go to grab his hand and he pulls his away, or you never kiss or get too close when you’re out together, this could be a sign that you’re a side chick. This also gives him room to lie to his “main chick” about who you are if you two happen to be seen.

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6. You’re never invited to stay the night after s8x.

As couples get more comfortable with each other, they tend to stay over at one another’s place after s8x. However, if he leaves your apartment in the middle of the night, or makes sure you never stay over at his place, this is a definite red flag. Also, keep in mind, if he has a family or “main chick”, staying until dawn will never be an option.

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