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Here Is The Only Mental Challenge Your Relationship Should Have …

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A man taking a new relationship is like a young boy opening a new jigsaw puzzle for the very first time. If he opens up the box and the puzzle is already put together, all the fun and exictment is taken out of it. But if the kid has to think, imagine, strategies, and put all the little pieces together, his mind is being stimulated. And the little boy is tickled pink.

The mental challenge is not “Can I get her to sleep with me”? The mental challenge is , “Can I get and keep her attention”?

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When it comes to securing a man’s interest in commitment, your best strategy is to behave as if you like him, but you are not that interested in locking him down. The objective is not to be standoffish (unsociable or unfriendly), just low key  honey. The lower the profile, the more he will come in for the kill. And by “low profile” I mean, appear happy to see him, just do not assume the role of his girlfriend. When you do not step into that role, he will lower his guard and begin to purse you.

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The beautiful reason for this is because men are program to protect their freedom. He starts off half way suspicious that you want to get married to begin with. So the minute you that talking about commitment, hinting about marriage or appearing to want to take him down he will do “BATTLE” to fight for his freedom. The second you alter words like monogamy, kids or mini van, he will put up a wall. In his mind every woman is looking a live one so she can plot his capture…arrest…and future life in captivity.

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Have you ever wonder why men read women’s magazines? They are spying on the opposition. A man will read all the articles like “How to get him to commit even though he slept with your best friend” They always show a picture of a guy with his back turned to a pouty-looking woman wearing a “Victoria secret bra” so he figures, ALL WOMEN HAVE A PRESET AGENDA.

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What makes matters even worst is all the horrible advice about how a woman should verbally “negotiate” a relationship. Whether it is exclusivity in the beginning or getting engaged a year later, the convectional wisdom is to put your cards on on the table and tell him you want a relationship (as if he doesn’t already know). in other words, get busy on the fast track. this, the so-called expert say, will save time and cut to the chase so you can know going in whether or not hes “marriage minded.” right? Not so fast.

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Men have a name for this. they call it “the talk”. Its the first sign of trouble. Here are some things women say during a conversation or pillow talk within the first couple of month:

  1. Where is this headed?
  2. How do we feel about commitment?
  3. I am looking for the one
  4. Do you want to settle down?
  5. I refuse to waste my time in a dead end situation
  6. I’d like to have children
  7. Do you ever see yourself getting married? or remarried?
  8. I am looking for security. What are you looking for?
  9. My clock is ticking

The woman thinks she is subtly beating around the bush, or helping to move things along. But to a guy? He sees this as way too obvious. It is as blatant as a farmer opening up the mouth of a work mule to examine the teeth: Good stock! I will take him.
You need to be very confident of yourself, you do not need any man’s permission to feel good about yourself. If he wants to settle down with you C’mon honey he will propose,do not stress it at all, it is kind of scary trust me.

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