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Please Advise Me What Will I Do After This Marriage?

Please Advise Me What Will I Do After This Marriage?


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Hi NGTrends Readers,

I am a young lady of 30yrs, i met a guy when i was serving 4yrs ago, he proposed to me but I rejected it and since then he has been calling me to know how am doing which usually end up with me insulting him most times in order to leave me. Recently like 3months ago, he called to propose again……and i accepted. We did introduction and hoping to have our wedding early next year. The problem now is that anything i discuss with him, he calls his younger sis which is married to get advice from her. I checked through his phone last night and i realised he has told his sister everything i told him about the wedding preparation…….He told me to get information about the event centres in our town and the cost of each (cos we are not staying in the same state) which i did but he still went ahead to tell his sister about it in which they both concluded on calling someone that resides in my state to confirm the prices i gave him even including the …registry fee which i didn’t add a dime to the prices. Please how can i sort this issue out cos to me it seems my husband to be doesn’t trust me and if he is doing dis now, what would he do after the wedding. Please advice me on what to do.



  1. U are sick, becus it seems u don’t even love him, becus u said u accepted so he will leave u alone __ u where just old in the market that’s why u accepted the proposal!! So he will b a lucky man if u don’t marry him anymore

  2. U started it….! But never the less tell him to stop what he is doing or u call off the wedding. From my own point of view he is neither a Man or WOMAN… Leave him or you end up in a soup pot.

  3. Dear I think u shod talk to him Bcs there’s no hw he will not at list tell someone ok nd he only talk to his sis Bcs he think she hv add experience that why his talking to his. Sis dear I think u shod call him nd talk abt it nd pls be very loyal Bcs some man don’t play with their phones I wish u best of luck

  4. Dear we all av pple we trust and tell everything don’t be offended and don’t refer to u checking his phone, just let him see reasons he should trust u. And when doing this, be humble in ur choice of words.

  5. My dear, I think you should just walk to him as your love and let him know what you feel about the trust he had for you but please, don’t like him know you check his conversations with his sis oooo, just tell him you feel as if he doesn’t trust you… I wish you good luck in your wedding.


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