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See Reasons Why You Should Leave Someone You Love

See Reasons Why You Should Leave Someone You Love

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Life is weird. Sometimes you fall in love with the worst person in the world. And sometimes the sweetest person on the planet grabs your heart but things just aren’t… right. It seems like crazy talk to find signs that it’s time to break up with someone that you’re still in love with. I mean, if you love someone, you should be together, right? Well… not always. Relationships end for a lot of reasons other than cheating or betrayal — sometimes they end for no reason at all. It’s never easy to know if you should end it, especially when the love is clearly present.

Note this honey, “Love is when you want them to be happy and they want you to be happy even if it means not having each other in their lives.”

Now hold on to this one sentence for every reason that I give below and you will truly understand what I mean…

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1. You’re Just Not Happy

The heart wants what the heart wants. Sometimes what the heart wants is not your wonderful, magnificent, thoughtful, funny partner. Sometimes what the heart wants is to break up with the lazy, selfish, condescending love of your life who is just so damn cute and charming. One thing is for sure, you don’t ever have to stay with anyone just because you don’t want to break their heart.

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2. It’s Better To Let Go If You Cant Forgive

Staying in the relationship, even though every time you look at your partner, they remind you of how they have hurt you and how much pain you are going through, is not wise. You will constantly feel under appreciated and unimportant. On the other hand, your partner will be fighting within themselves and the guilt they carry. Whether it is cheating or any mistake that has poisoned the relation. Why linger on to something that is slowly poisoning itself? It is better to free yourself and your partner from the constant torture.

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3. You Keep Thinking About It

You don’t have to have a reason. If you just can’t stop feeling like you don’t want to be in the relationship anymore, even if you can’t put your finger on why, then it’s time to go. Trust your gut. You might feel sad, but you might also feel relieved. Both feelings are normal.

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4. When You Bring Out The Bad In Each Other

It is a hard concept to grasp and agree with but it isn’t unfamiliar. 2 years ago, I broke up with my boyfriend after being together for four years. Both of us have been praised for the kind of people we are and the way we communicate with people but it was a surprise for everyone when we broke up. We were good as individuals but disastrous as a couple. We used to fight every second, we both developed health issues and were mentally stressed out. We couldn’t let go because that’s not who we were, we weren’t quitters. We had been perfect with every relation of our lives, how could we not get this? It took three excruciatingly painful years to make us understand that sometimes two individuals can’t get it right and when that happens, let go. Again, avoid the torture.

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5. You’re Not Getting What You Need

Some people can’t do long-distance relationships. They need regular physical affection and the kind of attention you can only give in person. Some people fall in love with quiet, stoic types, then realize they can’t deal with the lack of talking about feelings. Some people fall in love with people who don’t have similar needs in bed or who never want to do anything they want to do. These could be the most wonderful, kind, rockstar partners in the world, but at the end of the day, if you’re needs aren’t being met, they’re not being met. It’s OK to put your needs at the top of your life priority list. Just make sure to take some time to think about your relationship, including what you need and what went wrong before you start dating again.

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6. When You Don’t Feel Like Making Any Efforts For Their Happiness

When one of the partner has given too much and can’t give anymore or can’t find the drive to do more. That is when you need to pack your bags and bid farewell. It’s called falling out of love and it happens more often than you think. If you don’t feel the drive to dress up for your man or to woo your woman, simply don’t care if they are happy and satisfied or not, there is no charm left or the motivation to go that extra mile for the love of your life. If this happens to you, you both have grown out of love and it is the right time to part ways.

I’ve been through my fair share of breakups, I know how life-threatening they can be. How difficult was your last breakup? Did it change you in any way? Let me know in the comments below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!

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