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The Most Common Fight That Ruin A Relationship

The Most Common Fight That Ruin A Relationship

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It’s in our nature to disagree, ,more than we agree on things. Every individual is different, every person has their own point of views on life and how to live it, and when two people get into a relationship they start sharing a life together, and that’s when the fights slowly start to happen. It’s perfectly normal to fight your significant other, but the fights should not get out of hand and should be controlled by one of the two. I’m going to mention some of the most common relationship fights, because these fights can often lead to harsh breakups (I’ve seen them happen and also been through a few). The point of this article is to prepare you guys for the negativities that come with every relationship and I’ll try my best to teach you how to deal with those negativities. Let’s begin.

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Silent treatment

This technique might seem to work on your partner but remember, by giving your partner the silence treatment is just a really bad idea for the following reasons;

A. You are making them used to your silence. No matter how much they love you, at some point, they will become used to your silence and for them putting a permanent silence to your problems won’t be a problem. As you yourself have slowly conditioned them to live without your presence, same goes for someone who breaks up and makes up every other day.

B. Once, they get used to you treating them like this, they will not feel that they need to stop themselves from doing something that you might not like. For the simple reason that when you give the same reaction every time, they sort of become OKAY with it. Not that they don’t care, not that they are bad people. Just because they have been made used to something, they can now take that silence without feeling bothered.

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Fights about “Nothing”

This might seem funny to most people in new relationships, but people who’ve been together for a couple of years know what I’m talking about. Fights over “nothing” are very common in couples who know and love each other for too long. These fights are so trivial that both sides have no idea how the fight started in the first place. These fights are caused by other tensions that are left unsolved in the past, these little tensions slowly develop into a fight that leads nowhere and the couple starts being normal with each other after a while. To avoid such fights, make sure you speak your heart out with each other all the time. Don’t think that you shouldn’t tell them something if it’s bothering you just because it would lead to an argument, have that argument to save yourselves from a bigger argument later. Speak your mind, be free

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The Constant make-up and break-up fight

Fights where you break up and after a few days, make up. A lot of couple I knew did this and sadly broke up, eventually. Such couples break up on every fight which, basically, does not end a fight through reaching a solution. Instead, they just give each other time to forget about the argument or the thing that caused it. A couple that only has such kind of fights will have a relationship full of unresolved issues. Unresolved issues give birth to a thousand more problems. By the time you realise that, you both have given up on the relationship. Secondly, such kind of fights will never let the couple feel like a couple. Every time they fight, the two go their own separate ways till they have forgotten about the problem. This way, a couple will never get used to sticking with each other through thick and thin.

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Fights caused by jealousy

Jealousy is another natural element of everyone’s life, it happens and it can easily be controlled, it’s all in your head and the insecurities caused by jealousy can be very fatal for a relationship. We often get jealous of our partners, but it’s okay as long as it’s the sweet sort of jealousy. My girlfriend knows her limits with her friends and she knows I’ll never bound her from anything, so she doesn’t give me a reason to be jealous of anything. One easy way to deal with jealousy is to get a strong grip over your insecurities and to end them. If you’re insecure about yourself, you’ll always be insecure about your relationship which causes jealousy to appear in the mix in a way it really shouldn’t.

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Fights over the past

Some people have a harder time letting go of the past than others. Some people linger on to it and want to keep something to themselves for leverage, it shouldn’t be like that because it’s not healthy but that’s how it is. If your significant other musters up the courage and strength to tell you everything about their past, even their most embarrassing of mistakes, please don’t use those things against them in the past. Accept them completely for who they were and for who they are, do NOT linger on to the past.

That about does it for the most common reasons why couples fight, if you have something to add, please comment below and let me know. I hope you’ve enjoyed this article and liked reading about my experiences. As always, I only do this because I love you guys and don’t want any of you to be unhappy with your partners. Stay blessed and keep the love alive!

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