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Tips To Help Your Man Understand You Better Than Ever

Tips To Help Your Man Understand You Better Than Ever

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You’re talking to him but you know he isn’t paying attention to you. You’ve even told him that you have something important to say, but you can see that glazed look that just screams, “I’m thinking of something else.” So what do you do? You get upset; you start to yell at him saying that he never listens to you. That makes him mad and then he starts to yell back and the next thing you know, you’re both fed up with each other. There’s a better way to communicate with your man so that you don’t get into an argument every time you want him to listen. No, it’s not what you’ve probably tried already –not telling him things because it’s not worth it since he’s not going listen anyway.

Instead, you can implement these magical tips to get your man to understand you and finally feel like you’re being heard.

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1. Explain your feelings

While this certainly isn’t always the case, guys generally aren’t as emotional as women are. Therefore, a lot of emotion from you can feel confusing to your man. He may not understand why a situation was so upsetting to you, as much as he really wants to. It can be helpful to explain why you feel the way you do. Explaining that you feel sad because you felt you deserved the promotion more than a coworker goes a long way.

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2. Don’t talk to him when he’s busy

If he’s playing video games or watching a sports event on TV, that is not the time to talk to him. He may tell you that it’s okay that you tell him something or that he can listen without looking at you, but he’s just doing that so you’ll stop nagging him about when he’ll be ready to talk.

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3. Let him know it helps you to talk

Most women feel better after they talk even if they don’t reach a solution. Men are not wired this way. They usually aren’t as into sharing as women. Let him know that just talking about what’s going on makes you feel better. Most men are happy to listen to their girlfriend or wife talk once they understand this. You’re the woman he loves most in the entire world and he’s happy to give you support once he understands how to.

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4. Ask him when he can pay attention to you

Tell him that you have something important to tell him and that you need his full attention. Then step away and let him come to you. If he forgets, remind him, but don’t continue reminding him or he’ll make time but will be in rush for you to finish.

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5. Tell him what you need

Guys are fixers. They want to do something to help if you’re feeling down. Tell him some things he could do to help. It could be taking you out to dinner or just holding your hand in a situation that makes you nervous. It’s nice to know he wants to do something to help you feel better.

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6. Don’t attack first

If you have an issue to bring up to him, don’t start with, “You have made me so mad.” If you start with that, he’ll shut down immediately. That means everything you have to say afterwards, about the reason why you are upset, won’t be heard by him. Begin the conversation with the situation and then let him know that the situation is what made you upset. You’ll see how he’s less likely to become defensive and more open to talk so you can feel better about what happened.

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7. Show your appreciation for his attention

Men always love to be praised. If he listens to you and you’re happy with the attention you received from him, let him know. The more you point out what you want when you ask to be listened to, the more he’ll know what to do the next time.

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8. Be straight forward, especially concerning your relationship

#Men are generally not great at getting hints or picking up on vibes you’re trying to send out. It’s best to take a straightforward approach instead. This’s especially true when it comes to issues in your #relationship. If he did something to upset you, tell him straight out instead of hoping he’ll figure it out. It’s quicker and easier than playing a guessing game.

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