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Please Advise Me, I Find It Very Difficult To Love

Please Advise Me, I Find It Very Difficult To Love


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Hi NGTrends Readers,

I am Zainab aged 24 and am in level four studying Medical Laboratory Science. I have a problem when it comes to having feelings for men or even be interested in dating for that matter. The first time I had a boyfriend was in 2014. I decided to move on without my boyfriend after I lost contact with him in the same year, as he is a foreigner and currently in his country studying. From that time guys have been coming my way, but I find it hard to fall for one. Even if I do, I will lose interest in just a short time. Before I even had a boyfriend for the first time, it was hard for me to love until he came my way.. Now am back to my state of liking someone and then losing interests suddenly. I really want to love but its hard for me…. Please I need your help.



  1. Hello Zainab, maybe it is not the right time for this boyfriend stuff and all. Everything has its time, when it is time you will be able to fall in love. Probably is because all those you have met are not equal to your flavour that’s why you loose interest or I think there is limited interaction or understanding between you too. I will suggest you to try to find one that is open-minded and is okay to talk about anything no matter how weird.

    I hope this helps. If it doesn’t and you want to share something extra, I am always here. Regards

  2. Truth is, you cannot love without knowing He that is called Love (Jesus). If you want to learn to love, I will introduce you to Jesus who will teach you all you need to know as well as change your story. All He asks for is for you to accept Him and receive Him and He starts working on your life from now on…


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