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Things Men Love In A Relationship…

Things Men Love In A Relationship…

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S8x for s8x’s sake is fun and everything, but eventually everyone needs love. Sustaining love. Passionate love. Love that makes you a grilled cheese with aged cheddar and gruyere the morning after beautiful show with the fellas.

But in order to get this kinda love you’re gonna have to work. You gotta be true, you gotta be legit, you gotta be masculine and you have to be serious about giving the love you want returned to you.

None of this stuff matters if you’re a sockpuppethead a*shole who enjoys humping and dumping chicks for sport. Take your bullsh*t low self-esteeem-having a*s elsewhere until you figure out what it means to be a man that truly loves a woman. When you figure it out, come back here and learn you some shit, bro.

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1. Security

Men and women are both attracted to certainty in a relationship. The more a man feels like his partner is in it for the long haul, the more ready and able he is to be able to open up to her (assuming he is equally invested in her). But security goes deeper than just the fact that you won’t leave him. The security that he feels ties back in to several of these points. He feels secure in knowing that you approve of him and where he is in his career. He feels secure and loved when you touch him non-sexually throughout the day. He feels secure when he is allowed to have his guys’ nights away from you and you don’t feel the need to call or text him every half hour to check in.

And he feels secure with a partner who takes steps to love him in the way that he most needs.

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2. She doesn’t put a lot of stock in social media

If your woman has to Facebook, tweet and/or Instagram every place, meal and adventure you guys undertake, beware. Social media is great for keeping up with friends and family and seeing what they’re up to and thinking and other random sh*t. But social media does not, a life, define. Getting 20+ likes for something you did doesn’t justify its happening. So if your chick is more interested in taking Facebook selfies than in just enjoying the walk through the ancient ruins of Macu Picchu with you, she may be more into the projection of your relationship than the romance itself.

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3. Praise And Approval

Men have infamously tender egos. We like frequent reassurance about ourselves, our career paths, our efficacy as partners, our s.exual prowess, and our attractiveness (among other things). We have heard alot about countless male saying their partners rarely let them know what they like about them. While it may be true that men need relatively less frequent verbal praise than their female counterparts, this isn’t the kind of gesture that requires keeping score. Why not just have more of a good thing? So ladies, let your praise loose. Tell your man exactly what you find attractive about him. Let him know what physical features of his are your favourites. Tell him how attractive you find it when he says something a certain way, when he accomplishes something, or when he takes you on a date. Your praise won’t make him cocky; it will help him feel loved.

And (bonus) the more you praise his positives, the more you will see them.

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4. S8x

You are a man. The testosterone that makes you hairy like a lumberjack is the same thing that gets you tossed out of the titty bar for grabbin’ on the girly bits. A woman that would enter into a romantic relationship with you needs to understand that s8x is a massive part of how you express yourself emotionally. Women tend to get it twisted and think that you’re in the relationship because ‘you just want her for sex.’ As such, she wants to make sure that you love her for other shit too. Thing is, you already do love her for all that other shit because ‘you just want HER for s8x’ not anyone else. If she’s a real woman, that’s flattering as f8ck and enough encouragement for her to throw you a bone a few times a week.

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5. Respect

Men feel respect as love. If he feels like you disapprove of him, his career, or the things that he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you. The thought process behind that being “If she doesn’t respect who I am at my core, then how can she really want what is best for me?” If a man’s partner doesn’t respect his path or mission in life, then he will find it very difficult to feel anything other than an anxious need to distance himself from her.

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6. A Good Cook

I just can not stress this enough… The easiest and simplest way to a man’s heart is his stomach.. Well you do not have to be the best cook on earth, but you gat to know how to cook well, way above average. Men hate to starve.

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