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What To Do When He Takes You For Granted And Nagging Doesn’t Work

What To Do When He Takes You For Granted And Nagging Doesn’t Work

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Well the basic question here is are you “A Lover Or A Mother? It is a scenario that is too familiar: a nice girl on “overdrive” trying to please her man. He comes home from work and she tries to have a conversation. He tunes her out saying, I’m tired. She makes dinner, but he eats in front of the TV so he can watch Football. She tries to look pretty; he doesn’t notice. But watch what happens when he realize the swimsuit issue got delivered; he almost hyperventilates. Diagnosis? She feels taken for granted.

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Like the bum on the street with a sign that says Will work for food, your sign now reads Will work for attention. Well, no more “slimming,” girlfriend. We are under new management. Under the old management, you dealt with with his lack of attention by nagging. And if you’ll notice, it hasn’t worked. This is why all of the steps discussed in this chapter involved changes in demeanor. Wjen you nag at a man, he becomes more reclusive

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Essentially, you always want to remember that although he is a grown man, inside there is a three-year-old causing him to have appreciation deficit disorder. Whenever you nag, you activate this tiddler and you have a thirty second window before you’ve activated the little boy gland.

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It is as easy as changing a radio station. In thirty seconds, he’ll tune you out and won’t tune you back in until the nagging is over. It doesn’t matter if his pants are on fire and smoke has filled the room. He won’t hear a word you say.

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This is why you should communicate with your actions… rather than your words. Since a man won’t discuss feelings as a woman does, anything past the second repetition seems like nagging. Never ask a man to do something more than twice or he’ll feel as though he’s being scolded by Mom. And whenever you nag, he’ll behave like a stubborn teenager and rebel.

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