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Honest Reasons Why You Are Still Single

Honest Reasons Why You Are Still Single

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Do you worry about the reasons why you’re still single? I know you might feel like everyone else in the world is paired off into couples except for you, but don’t worry there isn’t anything ‘wrong’ with you. There are simply some good reasons why you are still single. Sometimes you might feel like you are ready to commit to someone but your relationship status seems to never change so you keep asking yourself one question: ‘Why am I still single?’ It’s time we end your confusion and reveal the potential reasons why you are still single.

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1. You Are Not Available.

You do not out yourself out there, You just sit around at home waiting for miracles to happen, you sit around whining about being lonely and single. You are waiting for prince charming or princess charming to magically appear in front of you. Well if you keep doing that you will end up with an old man you get matched make with or you die lonely am sorry darling I just have to sincere with you. Hello Bae if prince charming is not coming go out there and look for him. Well, I know going out there trying to get someone to love is not that easy. But if you are not comfortable with you situation, you just have to go out there. Rejection is scary and painful. But ya know what isn’t painful? Knowing you tried, and that you really gave it your best effort – even if it didn’t work that time. Being confident in your conviction, that this is something that you want, and then going after it. You are you, and that is not going to change in this lifetime. So get comfortable with it and start making it happen for yourself. Figure out what you bring to the table, and go for it.

Go out, meet people, get a new hobby meet different people, it doesn’t matter what it is but you have to broaden your social circle. If your social circle currently has nothing to offer you in terms of someone you would be interested in, then you have to broaden your reach.

If you don’t want to put yourself out there in a physical sense, guess what? You don’t even have to leave your couch to put yourself out there anymore. Join online dating, and take it seriously. It’s a digital age, so there really is no excuse for not earnestly trying and putting yourself out there at least in some capacity. There’s like one million free dating apps nowadays. But, at the same time, don’t expect a guy to message you first. This is your life! If you think you’d be interested in someone, reach out. Just because you’re a female doesn’t mean a guy has to reach out to you. You want to meet someone, you make it happen.

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2. High Standard

Your standards are too high. It’s great to have high standards. No woman should sell herself short and then be stuck in a situation she regrets. There is such a thing, however, as having standards that are too high. What’s the difference, you ask? Well, normal standards are something like this: “I want him to respect me, treat me right and be honest and decent.” Too-high standards look like this: “He better drive a Range Rover and have a job making six figures.” It’s good to have expectations but ultimately, whether or not he’s a high earner isn’t going to bring you happiness or a stable relationship. Also, don’t let your standards get in the way of a good guy. Sometimes, women will pass on a man, believing they can do better, only to settle with a lesser someone years later. Always ask yourself if your standards are realistic. And more importantly, ask if your standards will nab you the man that will make you happy.

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3. You Are Afraid of Rejection

Fear of rejection is a common problem that prevents many from advancing in their romantic life and it may be one of the reasons why you are still single. Putting yourself out there and exposing your feelings makes you feel vulnerable. Not everyone is willing to risk getting hurt, which is why many of us hold back from making the first move. Rejection however, is inevitable so unless you want to remain single for the rest of your life, stop fearing something that is bound to happen.

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4. You Are Impatient, Settle, or Give Up Too Easily.

Maybe you have put yourself out there. Maybe you had some bumps in the road, some bad dates, or no responses to messages. For some reason some people just throw their hands up in the air and say, “I give up, there’s no point.” But every guy you meet shouldn’t be the perfect guy, in fact it would be pretty alarming if you thought so. So let each experience be a learning experience, and keep moving.

Knowing what works and what doesn’t through experience, rather than without foundation, is actually beneficial to you. That’s what your 20s should be for. Bad dates are really just ruling people out, one by one, slowly but surely. Maybe you’ll meet someone great sooner, maybe it will be later, but don’t start settling the second you get attention or can tolerate someone. If there are red flags, heed them. And don’t get discouraged when it doesn’t necessarily go your way.

People can usually tell when you are too eager, too desperate, or will settle for anything. It’s the opposite of having expectations too high, and it’s just as problematic. While you can’t limit yourself too much, you also can’t just jump into the first thing you see and pretend he’s “the one.” I’ve seen plenty of people do this and they go from relationship to relationship to relationship just because they will settle for anyone who comes their way.

Be realistic. Be patient. Be honest with yourself. You’re only hurting yourself in the end by clinging to whoever is there, or who seems “good enough” for the time being, because it won’t last and you’ll just have to restart again later on. So just give it time, ride the waves, and don’t give up.

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5. You Play Hard to Get.

Playing hard to get can make things a little bit confusing to the person you are trying to attract. Flirting one minute and canceling on plans the next is not the way to attract your Mr.Right. Plus mixed signals are way too easy to get tired of, to the point that someone you actually really like might be frustrated enough to stop pursuing you. So if you feel like there might be something going on, admit to your feelings instead of playing games.

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6. You’re Not Listening.

This goes for both men and women. Most of us are very bad at listening. To listen is to devote your complete attention on the other person. If your attention is divided between what they’re saying and what you want to say next or how you want to respond, you will not receive everything he is saying. Listening is not about hearing, it’s about receiving. Information from the other person is coming at you in several forms. Spoken word is only a fraction of it.Pay attention to their body language, their tonality, eye contact, their energy, euphemisms, sarcasm and the things they don’t say. There is too much being sent to you for you to not be fully attentive.

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7. You Are Hung up on Your Ex

Your prolonged single status might be explained by the leftover feelings you must still have for your #ex and the only way for you find someone else, is to move on from the past. There isn’t a deadline by which you must get over your previous relationships but you must realize that some people are not made for each other, and it’s possible to fall in love for the second time.

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