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Signs Your Relationship Is Bound To Fail

Signs Your Relationship Is Bound To Fail

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There is a popular phrase around saying “love conquers all” or “never go to bed angry.” But unlike these popular phrase, there is a lot of truth in labeling an unhealthy partnership. The amount of misunderstanding between two people has no bearing on the success of the relationship, it is simply how the problem is being resolved or viewed that determines the success of a relationship. Here are some issues/problem that can result to an unsuccessful relationship, issues that result to a doomed relationship.

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1. Harsh Startups

The moment you start a conversation with your significant other and you are immediately criticize, sarcastic, negative then it is a harsh startup. It is just so obvious that if you start like this, if your foundation is based on negativity it will also end that way. You know this will leave you and your partner feeling even worse than you did at the inception of the discussion, and most likely without any kind of resolution.To resolve this, talk to your lover positively,try not to begin your interaction with nasty edge, try to open with a compliment or something you appreciate about your partner. While this ugly habit may be difficult to break, if you both become more self-aware of your actions, positive change is possible.

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2. Contempt

Well this is an open sign disrespecting one another. One of the basic component of love is mutual respect. Contempt involves taking your partner down on a notch, a kind of direct insult. Contempt also in in indirect and veiled forms, such as rolling of the eyes, hissing and couching insults within “humor.” It is very simple, if you can do this to your partner that means you obviously do not want a future for both of you at all. Contempt stems from a lack of interest in the other person. If you do not like something about your partner get very close to him or her and address it to your partner politely.

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3. Trust Issues

Trust is the basic foundation of a relationship, if you do not trust you significant other you relationship is as good as nothing. When you trust your partner you will feel safe and your relationship will be strong. If you are always asking your partner about their whereabouts, about their behavior, about their time or your partner’s attitude you will forever then you would forever be in doubt of the relationship. Discuss whatever trust issues you might be having and come up with ways to work on them together.

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4. Defensiveness

You don’t take any responsibility for your contributions toward problems in your relationship. Rather, everything is your partner’s fault. Defensiveness only serves to accelerate the anxiety and tension experienced by both parties, and this makes it difficult to focus on the larger issues at hand that need to be resolved. To overcome this issue you have to calm down listen to your partners complain even if you think you are right. Try to see things from their side, try to understand what your partner is saying other than dismissing their opinion defensively. Try to see it from their perspective.

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5. Shutting Out

This is when your partner’s actions, whether negative, criticism or insulting what ever is too overwhelming that you become so paralyzed emotionally, you shutdown and you completely detach from the relationship because you simply cannot handle the toxicity. These feelings usually lead to even more contempt over time, and a quick deterioration of a relationship.

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6. Forgive And Forget

If you find yourself still pissed at your partner for something that happened months or weeks ago then you have not let go of the past, you are still holding on to the past which is going to keep hurting you and your relationship, you will just be stuck with the bad memories. This will let you view your past, present and future relationship negatively, even worst than it is. Instead of remaining in this unpleasant space, try to remember good times and positive qualities about your partner.

If you and your significant other are having this issues, maybe one or two of the signs is what is happening in your relationship, do not let go of your lover, Instead challenge yourself take this opportunity for some positive change in your relationship. Do not forget nobody is perfect, we are all just perfect in our imperfection.

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