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Tips For Women: Killing Mistakes Women Make In Marriage

Tips For Women: Killing Mistakes Women Make In Marriage

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1. Not putting their husband before their kids.

Don’t let your life revolve around your kids. At some point, your children will leave home and you will find yourself sharing an empty house with a total stranger. Make your relationship with your husband a top priority.

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2. Not trusting their husband.

Trust can be difficult, but it is necessary. Without it, you will never feel secure in your marriage. And, your husband will never feel like he is worthy of your trust. If trust has been broken by your husband, he will need to earn it back. Allow him to take the necessary steps to restore it. A marriage without trust is built not on a rock, but on the sand.

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3. Mismatched Communication Styles.

If you feel you aren’t being heard by your husband, you may want to explore the ways you try to get through to him. Some women repeat their complaint or a concern a few times in an effort to get their husband’s attention. Some men may call that nagging, but it may just be about having different communication styles. It is “demand-withdraw” dynamic: One person wants a conversation, but the other hasn’t figured out how to respond or appears to have shut down, so the speaker presses further. “That’s a vicious pattern,” If that happens in your relationship a lot, remember to pause to let your spouse absorb what you’re saying and have “a chance to validate what they’ve heard,” It might be useful to take a hard look at what is fixed — personality quirks, for example — and what can be changed. Nearly 70% of marital problems are “perpetual,” meaning that these are issues that drag on. The challenge is to recognize what can’t be corrected. It helps to “move toward acceptance. You’re not going to change a cautious person into a risk-taker or an introvert into an extrovert.

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4. Not Making S*x a Priority.

Whether it’s fatigue or some other reason, many women don’t make enough time for s*x. That’s a serious mistake, “The reality is, what is best for everybody — for them, their spouse — is a healthy s*x life, “It keeps the family a happy family. And what their kids need more than anything is parents who have a strong, positive bond.Women need to build in time — and by extension, desire — to make love with their husbands. “They can’t just drop everything and have s*x with their husband. It’s a product of spending alone time together, building anticipation throughout the week.

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5. Not showing their husband respect.

Respect his judgment. Don’t constantly question his decisions. Respect his abilities. Give him a chance to fix the sink before

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6. You nag him.

Being nagged by their wives has become so common in marriage that it’s become almost expected by men! As a wife, I can say that saddens me, especially since nagging is so completely unnecessary! Do not allow yourself to become a stereotypical wife by paying attention to the way that you speak to your husband. Your job as his mate is to uplift him, not bring him down with your words. Talking to your guy in a positive, loving way will go a lot further than fussing at him. An important fact to know is that studies have shown that the male brain does not process the female voice the same way it would another man’s voice. To have effective communication with your husband, you should not only remember to watch what you say, but also how you say it.

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7. Forgetting to Cherish Their Partner.

Some women get so focused on kids, work, and home that they forget to make the small gestures that go a long way to solidifying their marriage. “In healthy relationships, there are dollops of positivity, very frequently doled out, “They can be smiles, eye contact, hugs or touching, verbal comments like ‘I agree with that’ or ‘good point’ or even the word ‘yes.’ Listening, agreement, appreciation, affection — those all send out positive energy that envelop both people in sunshine. ‘Those gestures remind both partners that they like each other, and friendship is at the heart of successful marriages. Married people often “operate on out-of-date knowledge of self,”leading them away from true appreciation of their partners. “It’s a myth that a good marriage sustains itself, “It’s learning yourself, learning your partner. What you are at 24 is not what you are at 34.

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