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Top Reasons Why Men Cheat

Top Reasons Why Men Cheat

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But why do men cheat? What are they looking for when they cheat? Is it because of the Intimacy or control? Here’s what I’ve found through research things men are looking for when they decide to enter into an extramarital affair — unconsciously in many cases. (It’s really not just about the s8x! Seriously!)

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1.Boredom

Some men may find the routine life to be tedious and dull. These men find it easier to shift dominance or primacy to another relationship and feel the spark outside to be a thrilling option; instead of finding ways of charging their relationship. It becomes present moment for gratification versus the hard job that they will have to do in their marriage to resolve an issue. The extra-marital relationship provides them with a ready made and fresh experience, which is appealing enough to take the risk.

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2. Appreciation

When appreciation stops being quite so obvious and plentiful from their spouse and if the relationship contains a heavy dose of blame and criticism (as most do) or even possibly contempt men start looking for positive affirmations from others. With the new love interest everything is wonderful  he is wonderful  in the first flush of a new relationship.

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3. Intimacy

Some men cheat to avoid real intimacy, intimacy scares them alot so they distance themselves from their girlfriend or wife by cheating on them. So well this way they do not have to fully rely on someone else, so they can not get hurt. Trust me this makes lots of sense in their mind.

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4. Experimenting

S8x has always been and will always be an integral part of a marriage. While some men are quite content spending the rest of their lives having s8x with the same wife for many years, others prefer to experiment more as a need, rather than as an option. They want to sleep with many women, many times, and therefore do not think twice before an extra-marital alliance. It perhaps makes them feel s8xually powerful and more adept than others.

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5. Emotional Dissatisfied

As relationships mature, power struggles tend to become more prevalent (as obvious as the “I’m Right”/”No, I’m Right” conversation and as subtle as the timing and frequency of s8x). When a man experiences repeated power struggles with his spouse, his natural tendency is to “go to his cave”, which really means get quiet and distant and grumpy! Which makes emotional connection that much more difficult. Over time he misses the emotional connection he previously felt with his spouse. When he meets someone new and they accept him for “who he is” it’s much easier for him to connect with his emotions and feel connection with this new and interesting person. Of course when the lust and honeymoon period are over and the power struggles start to arise in the new relationship he’ll likely revert to his well-learned pattern and his struggles will start all over again.

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6. Feeling Wanted

Everyone wants to feel wanted regardless of age, gender or occupation. Men are no different. And men tend to be socialized to provide security and strength as an expectation, rather than something to be appreciated for.

As life moves along a man can often feel like he is taken for granted. Meaning, he feels like he only matters because of what he can provide, not because of who he is. In a new relationship suddenly he matters again.

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7. Their Libido Needs a Boost

You know how it goes, you can’t get enough of each other at the beginning. But after a while, things feel more comfortable…which isn’t a bad thing. Some men crave that newness again and go elsewhere to find it.

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8. Cheating Men Have Wives Who Cheat

Men also take revenge with their cheating wives, by having multiple relationships themselves. Even if their wives are guilty and come accept their extra-marital relationships, some men continue with their tricks. This is mostly done by men who don’t want to forgive their spouses.

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