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Should I Reach Out To My Ex?

Should I Reach Out To My Ex?



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Hi NGTrends Readers,
This will probably sound like a stupid question..

6 months ago my ex broke up with me. Said he still cared and loved me but was at a difficult place in life and confused and just wanted a break basically. Told me maybe we’d get back together in the future and that we’ll see what happens.

He kind of shut down after we broke up for a good 2 months and I know he dated a couple of other women. During the last 2 months he has contacted me I would say about 3-4 times just things like “hey hope you’re doing ok” “Hi Sara I hope you don’t hate me still” things like that – nothing much or over the top.

I personally decided to ignore every message he’s ever sent to me…because well I’m still hurt and still trying to heal over him. I also don’t know what he wants/wants to talk about. There really isn’t anything to talk about, we didn’t end on the best of terms. But lately he has been on my mind a lot. I use to consider him not only my boyfriend but also my best friend. I told him everything. He’s the only person I ever confided in and trusted.

I kind of want to reach out to him and let him know that I at least still care about him and miss him, because I think he thinks I hate him. I don’t hate him, just still hurt. But what if I reach out to him and find out he’s seeing someone and doesn’t really have any intention anymore in re-connecting, Then I’ll look like a weirdo. Lol kind of hard to explain. Or should I just wait and see if he tries to contact me again sometime soon and act on it then?

What would you do in my situation?



  1. In my own knowledge I think u shud move on too….i mean try to see if what u felt for him can be felt for another person.trust me it’s hard I know cos no other person can be like him,talk like him or even in d slightest way be close to who ur ex was b there is every tendency that what u guys felt before may not be strong as the way it use to be in other words look for a way to move on.i hope this works.

  2. Just like Tosin said, I think you to should move on so he doesn’t think your life depends on him, just take things easy, all ll be well!!


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