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Hi NGTrends Readers,
Okay so this feels like a very very BAD dream. I just want to make it very clear that I WAS on birth control but stopped when I had an ovarian cancer scare and worried that is was my my birth control was making me sick. SO I stopped taking it, since I am engaged and figured it wouldn’t be that easy to get pregnant.. so we just used the pull out method this past month until I could research other birth control.. Stupid.. I know. But HELP. my wedding is in December, and its a destination wedding where 60 of our closest friends and family have ALREADY BOOKED their trips and everything is set to go.. If I keep this baby, I will be 9 months pregnant by then!! Instead of judging PLEASE just put yourself in my shoes and tell me what would YOU do? I wanted to wait a couple years…both are families are conservative and this will NOT be good.
Please note.. I have not shared this with my fiancé yet… This is still MY body and MY choice.. I don’t want to have to drag him into this mess. UPDATE: okay.. clearly I was wrong to want to hide it from him.. I will tell him tonight. Found out im pregnant. My wedding is in 8 months.. I would NOT be able to travel to my own wedding at that point and guest have paid a lot of money to attend our wedding. I don’t know if I should keep this baby or terminate.