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Ways To Attract The Love You Deserve Into Your Life

Ways To Attract The Love You Deserve Into Your Life

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Are you ready to be in a loving relationship? I’m not talking about a settling-for-less-than-you-want relationship. I’m talking about a vibrant, alive, passionate and harmonious relationship. It really is no secret that relationships are hard work and that finding ‘real love’ is a bit of a journey that often involves bad dates, heartache, cringe-worthy moments and a few frogs along the way.

Here are few tips on how to attract the love you deserve …

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Learn to love Number One

The first rule to attracting the love you deserve into your life is by understanding the love you are deserving of, i.e.: your self- worth. The way we view ourselves will not only set the standard of people we allow into our existence but also the way in which we let them treat us. When we fail to recognize our worth we ultimately start to invite opportunities of abuse, toxic relationships, and unnecessary battles. The choices that you make daily whether it’s in regards to your health, dreams or relationships, all stem from the way in which you view your value. By learning to love yourself in a healthy and humble way, you will eventually start to attract (and recognize) a similar healthy and for filling love.

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Learn To Connect With Your Inner Resource Of Love, Wisdom And Strength.

This is the resource you need to be able to turn to, to regulate and manage your own feeling so that you don’t make your partner responsible for your pain or joy. This resource can be whatever works for you: your understanding of God, your connection with a spiritual source within and/or without, your connection with your own higher soul, or whatever else works for you beyond your ego mind.

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You Have To Believe In Yourself.

People treat you the way you treat yourself, and the way you expect to be treated. This is why we repeat patterns over and over again; we expect something to happen, so it does. This is called a limiting (or dysfunctional) belief. Think about this concept for a second: If you care about yourself, you won’t stand for someone treating you poorly. It just doesn’t happen; you stand up for yourself (the way you’d stand up for a good friend), and move on. But when your self-worth is lower than it should be, you end up accepting treatment that mirrors that low self-worth. This keeps you stuck in relationships that don’t work for you!

The problem is that most of us don’t treat ourselves the way we treat our friends. The way we think, feel, and behave toward ourselves can be pretty harsh! In order to find incredible love with another person, you have to love and respect yourself. This means you have to treat yourself the way you want to be treated. Say kind things to yourself, do thoughtful things for yourself, listen to yourself, get to know yourself. Essentially, you’re dating yourself, and you’re in the honeymoon phase!

Make this major shift and your entire experience in relationships will shift, too.

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Work Out What You Want

There’s no point throwing away all your efforts on men that just aren’t what you are after because at the end of the day it’s time wasting for both parties (and not to mention exhausting and expensive!). Get a clear idea of what it is exactly that you want AND need, and then write it down so that you won’t forget it when you are lonely and tempted to settle for second best. You can choose who you allow entering your world and heart , so make sure that person is aligned with what you really want and need.

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